This site just needs to accept that low interest will be common in the earlier stages

[Dhoulmagus]

Lets be honest, you won't have any power over a girl until you make her ***** soaking wet. No girl is going to feel comfortable going out with some stranger that texted her monday on for a date on Friday and waits till Friday after 5pm to text her. If she doesn't bother contacting you in between those days then you should go nc lol. Yall act like girls are as desperate as guys in meeting the opposite sex. Newsflash, they aren't and they have more social opportunities and the opposite sex hitting them up then guys. It took me a month to get my ex of a year that is still hooked on me. The firt three times I asked her out, she never responded or flaked. One evening, I hit her up one last time and she didn't flake and we had sex that night. Guess who started blowing up my phone the next day? Last, they could be just uncomfortable meeting a stranger so soon.

 

[Von]

Persistance in a well done way = Interest but with frame

The girl will eventually accept to go on a date.... and the rest is history.

My ex.... took me 3 tries over 3 months to ask her on a date.... result = 5 years LTR

The one before another 3 tries over i think.... 1month.. result = 1 year LTR

A oneitis situation after I got single.... took 2 tries.... eventually landed a kiss while she was uninterested at the beginning. Than it crashed (guess she was not interested that much, or its me who had weak game after being in a LTR for so long) etc...

Now all my hookups or one night stand are just 1 try

There is nothing wrong in persistance, it can work but you have to show you have a life other than her. (strong frame)

It got me LTR and one nights. Your job is to build interest.... if she likes you after the 1st barrier (the first date) she'll open up with no mixed signals....

You know how my big boss got his wife of 60 years ? He stopped her bus..... yep he jumped in front

 

[fastlife]

• It's not chasing if your emotions aren't invested in the outcome. So see what happens. You're not wasting time if you're gaining experience. Use every interaction with girls as practice--no pressure; don't worry about her perception of you.
• Unless she's in your social circle, you don't exist to a hot young girl in 2016 until you've slept with her (or penetrated her emotions--which ever comes first). She's not playing games; she just doesn't know you're awesome--yet.
• The more a girl has going on in her life, the less desperate she'll be to bring you into hers or to entangle herself in yours.
• Don't 'wait' for sex--it's not waiting if you're taking action & escalating. Escalation creates interest. Force her to reject you (she'll respect you more for being honest in your intent).
• You've got nothing to gain by self-suppression--show a girl who you are and let her reject you. Put yourself out there with no expectation or need for validation, but for the sake of self expression. Being mysterious is not the same as being flat & boring & avoidant.
• Have other options--even if you don't, believe you do. But not all options are created equal and don't be afraid to pursue your favorites.
• Have fun. Don't worry about her IL; you'll know it's time to move on when it quits being fun. Your IL is the only one that matters.
• Be radically honest with yourself. Your ego will convince you to chase bad options (for validation) and self-eject from good ones (to preserve itself from rejection). It'll come up with all sorts of rationalizations that seems pretty damn convincing.

But yeah, guys who think a girl is 'disrespecting' them when you're just an avatar on her dating profile or a face she saw in the club one time are sensitive AF. They're fragile. I know because that was me.

 

[logicallefty]

Being physically attractive to a given woman gets you in the door, be it how you look to her, something you do that impresses her, your status, or combination.... Then the first few meetings and how you carry yourself interacting with her and the world around will determine if you will be fvck zoned, friend zoned, or creep zoned. Once you are fvck zoned, keep your frame that you originally had that attracted her, DO NOT SLIP FROM THAT, and let her do most of the work from there.

 

[Bingo-Player]

i wont completely burn chicks that flake especially if ive spent a while building a connection with her

if she flakes il stick her on hold for 6 -8 weeks and then try again

girls are quite situational creatures , she could be having a bad day because her eyeliner went wrong in the morning and thats a huge deal to her blah blah

about 2 years ago i added some chick on snapchat she was keen for the D , but ulitmatley flaked when i set a date , i put her on ice and tried again in a couple of months she was riding my c0ck within a week then

its weird - women are weird

take what you can get when you can get it and dont try and think too much about it , it wont do you any good

 

[Stugots26]

Lets be honest, you won't have any power over a girl until you make her ***** soaking wet. No girl is going to feel comfortable going out with some stranger that texted her monday on for a date on Friday and waits till Friday after 5pm to text her.

For this very reason you should just focus on being the best man you can, all-around, and focus on pulling women who you meet in real life. No online "stranger" is going to compare to a man she happens to meet in real life and feels a connection to.

 

[marmel75]

I disagree...all of the good relationships I've been in are the ones where the woman displays high interest early on...otherwise she will always be looking for the BBD(not the Big Black D!ck...although some might be...lmao)....the Bigger Better Deal

 

[Who Dares Win]

I disagree...all of the good relationships I've been in are the ones where the woman displays high interest early on...otherwise she will always be looking for the BBD(not the Big Black D!ck...although some might be...lmao)....the Bigger Better Deal

Agree on that, wheter it was sex on first night or green light to escalate day by day or week by week, all the girls worth my time and my investment never stressed me or shown low interest behaviour.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Wow, a useful post.

 

[ubercat]

I vote for IL with a side of persistence. However I d save the follow ups for girls who ve shown some degree of investment - given digits etc. I d lean much more to screening with net chicks on ACC of the high trash ratio. And I go with Doc love in that I reply if they've initiated. Even with net chicks. Couple of messages max. U never know I ve had a couple of booty calls with random NCs I d thought were pure AWs

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I disagree...all of the good relationships I've been in are the ones where the woman displays high interest early on...otherwise she will always be looking for the BBD(not the Big Black D!ck...although some might be...lmao)....the Bigger Better Deal

I've had girls tell me they want to **** me in to oblivion and then go straight cold when I ask them out. I can recall a poster saying that "the faster the train is going, the faster it will derail."

 

[LiveFreeX]

How do you feel about your wife running for president?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've had girls tell me they want to **** me in to oblivion and then go straight cold when I ask them out. I can recall a poster saying that "the faster the train is going, the faster it will derail."

Lots of c0ck teases out there. This is part of the bar/club environment.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Lots of c0ck teases out there. This is part of the bar/club environment.

It wasn't at a club lol.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It wasn't at a club lol.

The club is all around them regardless.