"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl punched me and I got her kicked out of the bar

zinc4

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Was running some good game last night and one of the girls didn't like me talking to her friend so she reached back and punched me.

First, she threatened to hit me if I persisted and I laughed and said it's a free world.

She reared back and decked me pretty good right in the face. So I was like ok you think it's cool just to go around hitting guys because u know they probably won't hit you back, guess what there's cameras in here and you are going to jail.

She starts apologizing and even hugging me because she knew I was right.

I said, thats cute, but you need to learn a lesson...so I approached the bar door guys and told them what happened and to check their cameras.

They asked me to point her out and I went over and said said this one...she likes to hit people.

She turned and starting begging not to get kicked out....I said yep, she has a problem.

And they carried her out and she looked like she wanted to cry begging her guy friends to help her.

I high fived the bouncer after that and tipped him well.

Violent feminists need to be dealt with. She would be stoned in public in some parts of the world for much smaller offenses.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good job, you handled it well. If you had punched her, you'd be walking out in cuffs... but because she's a girl she thought she get away with it. Pathetic.
 
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Women should respect the fact that a man won't hit her, not take advantage of it.

Glad it turned out in your favour in the end though, it's easy for other people to misinterpret such a situation and make you the bad guy.
 

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Your better then me, a chick tried punching me in the face last year and I clocked her ass right back. Chick wants to act tough then she can get hands. I really wasn't about to just let her hit me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Excellent job. Well done.
 

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Your better then me, a chick tried punching me in the face last year and I clocked her ass right back. Chick wants to act tough then she can get hands. I really wasn't about to just let her hit me.

Yeah, she definitely deserved to be hit.
 

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She punched me in the face because I was talking to her "Girlfriend". I said my bad didn't know you were together and then she punched me. I gave her a quick to piece and her friends were scratching me lol. I was like WTF
 

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Nicely done bro. Maybe she'll think twice next time she's trying to throw swings at men. She's lucky it was you. I know a few dudes that would break a girls jaw for somethin like that
 

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Something similar happened to me when I was stationed in Germany 20 years ago before I was married. To this day I have no idea why this girl was mad at me, but she just walked up and hit me... I think it was because I am an American, but who knows. What I did was took off my glasses and said to go ahead and hit me again. She did! I couldn't believe it.... she balled up her fist and hit me as hard as she could right on the cheek... gave me a nasty bruise but no bleeding. I think she broke one of her fingers. And I'm the one that got tossed out. She said I stuck my hand down her pants.... which was a lie, but no matter back then if you were a GI and ANYTHING went wrong in a social setting, you were blamed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Was running some good game last night and one of the girls didn't like me talking to her friend so she reached back and punched me.

First, she threatened to hit me if I persisted and I laughed and said it's a free world.

She reared back and decked me pretty good right in the face. So I was like ok you think it's cool just to go around hitting guys because u know they probably won't hit you back, guess what there's cameras in here and you are going to jail.

She starts apologizing and even hugging me because she knew I was right.

I said, thats cute, but you need to learn a lesson...so I approached the bar door guys and told them what happened and to check their cameras.

They asked me to point her out and I went over and said said this one...she likes to hit people.

She turned and starting begging not to get kicked out....I said yep, she has a problem.

And they carried her out and she looked like she wanted to cry begging her guy friends to help her.

I high fived the bouncer after that and tipped him well.

Violent feminists need to be dealt with. She would be stoned in public in some parts of the world for much smaller offenses.
You are a better man than I.
 

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I should.... but not sure how I can track her down at this point.
 

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I should.... but not sure how I can track her down at this point.
Just ask the bar for the tape. It's the pigs' job to ID her.
 

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Did she do any real damage? If not I wouldn't press charges. Just gonna be a headache, plus you don't want to be "that guy" who lawyered up after not even getting hurt. She prob learned a lesson because of how you handled it anyways.
 

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Did she do any real damage? If not I wouldn't press charges. Just gonna be a headache, plus you don't want to be "that guy" who lawyered up after not even getting hurt. She prob learned a lesson because of how you handled it anyways.
And that's the problem. Headaches , being that guy , etc. She is a woman she won't learn anything. OP, press charges.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Did she do any real damage? If not I wouldn't press charges. Just gonna be a headache, plus you don't want to be "that guy" who lawyered up after not even getting hurt. She prob learned a lesson because of how you handled it anyways.
No damage done. Just don't like women getting away with stuff like that.
 

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God I'm lucky that was you and not me... that ***** would be chewing pavement if it were me. She sounds like one of those a$$holes you follow home. Women like this are the reason girls should not walk home by themselves.

Not to derail your thread but I have a quick story.

In Asia I was getting out of a crowded subway. I must have gotten in the way of this one chick and I guess she spoke English and was used to dealing with university fags because she loudly infront of her friends said something like "You idiot, we are all trying to get out, **** off".

I immediately went after this girl with the fire of a thousand suns. I said "What did you say to me you stupid ****ing b1tch, you can speak english? Come here and say that to my face, I'm gonna break your fukin neck b1tch, come here!".

I had my wife in my other hand and my wife starts laying in to her in Chinese "Come here *****!, Come and say that to my husband's face".

She started walking away quickly, that's when my wife bolted towards her and when she saw my wife running after her, she took off up the stairs like a bat out of hell. I chased this girl and her squad right out of the subway and onto the street... in some ways I'm glad I didn't catch them, I was on the rampage and I probably would have beat the sh1t out of her, not good in a world of 30 males to 1 female. I guarantee that was the last time she ever used that tone with a foreigner, let alone a man. I'm sure it was the same for that cvnt in the bar, good on you.

The guy in green and the guy holding that camera need to have the crap kicked out of them.
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Call the police and report it, mention that they have tapes there. They will go and get the tape. You don't even need a lawyer, it's the State's job to pursue it.
I doubt that they would though, probably not worth the effort.

Aside from which, since there was no harm done, I agree with Yewki. Does zinc really want to be that guy who runs to the cops like a little b!tch? I wouldn't do that if a guy hit me and I was uninjured. Good for zinc for getting her thrown out of there, it's a nice blow against the double standard. But seriously, about the last thing on this planet that I am worried about is getting hit by a girl.
 

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it's the State's job to pursue it.
Nope, sorry friend, that would be in a perfect world. It's called Prosecutor's discretion. The state is *never* under a binding obligation to prosecute anyone. The DA can refuse to press charges against anyone; it's completely at their discretion.

And it gets better. Police are under no obligation to help you, either. They have the discretion to ignore anyone they choose. A guy ran up to a Chicago cop car recently with a knife sticking out of his neck, and the cop just drove off. The officer wasn't reprimanded, because he didn't break any rules. He just said he didn't feel safe getting out to help the guy, and that's good enough for the court.
 

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God I'm lucky that was you and not me... that ***** would be chewing pavement if it were me. She sounds like one of those a$$holes you follow home. Women like this are the reason girls should not walk home by themselves.

Not to derail your thread but I have a quick story.

In Asia I was getting out of a crowded subway. I must have gotten in the way of this one chick and I guess she spoke English and was used to dealing with university fags because she loudly infront of her friends said something like "You idiot, we are all trying to get out, **** off".

I immediately went after this girl with the fire of a thousand suns. I said "What did you say to me you stupid ****ing b1tch, you can speak english? Come here and say that to my face, I'm gonna break your fukin neck b1tch, come here!".

I had my wife in my other hand and my wife starts laying in to her in Chinese "Come here *****!, Come and say that to my husband's face".

She started walking away quickly, that's when my wife bolted towards her and when she saw my wife running after her, she took off up the stairs like a bat out of hell. I chased this girl and her squad right out of the subway and onto the street... in some ways I'm glad I didn't catch them, I was on the rampage and I probably would have beat the sh1t out of her, not good in a world of 30 males to 1 female. I guarantee that was the last time she ever used that tone with a foreigner, let alone a man. I'm sure it was the same for that cvnt in the bar, good on you.
Ha, I'd imagine that especially wouldnt be a good idea for a foreigner to strike a woman in public in China. You'd have the anti foreigner masses hunting you down. At least you got your wife on your side, though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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