Being nice or not

[tilger]

Hi guys. So here is my question. I met this girl (22 yo) who I went to 3 dates with jer, all good sje likes me although she did most of the "chase" this past weeks. Did not have sex woth her yet. Tomorrow she is going for a week to visit her parents back home. The question is should i offer to take her to the airport to gain points and to show i am really interested in her or that actually could be a beta approach?

Thanks a lot guys

 

[Tictac]

After three dates, don't go all 'nice guy'. Tell her to have a good visit. Let her enjoy the trip and don't interfere with it. Don't text or call. If she texts or calls you, keep it friendly and short. If she has interest in you, it will grow in her time away.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You didn't say how long the drive is. I wouldn't offer. But I probably wouldn't say no if she asked.

 

[Tenacity]

Hi guys. So here is my question. I met this girl (22 yo) who I went to 3 dates with jer, all good sje likes me although she did most of the "chase" this past weeks. Did not have sex woth her yet. Tomorrow she is going for a week to visit her parents back home. The question is should i offer to take her to the airport to gain points and to show i am really interested in her or that actually could be a beta approach?

Thanks a lot guys

- First of all, can you watch the spelling and grammar errors when you type? It's hard to follow what you are saying.

- Second, you guys take these "labels" way too seriously. NO girl sits around saying to herself that he's a "nice guy" or a "bad a.ss", either she is feeling attracted to you or she's not. You can do what is universally seen as "a.sshole" behavior and she be attracted to you, or you can do what's seen as "nice" behavior and she still be attracted to you.

Looks, Personality and Finances, you want to be as high as you can be (on a scale of 1-10) in all three. That will make you attractive and once you are attractive, you can usually get away with a lot of a.sshole (or "bad a.ss") shyt....just as you can get away with being more of a "nice guy".

Nice guys don't finish last, unattractive guys do.

 

[dustmuffin]

Hi guys. So here is my question. I met this girl (22 yo) who I went to 3 dates with jer, all good sje likes me although she did most of the "chase" this past weeks. Did not have sex woth her yet. Tomorrow she is going for a week to visit her parents back home. The question is should i offer to take her to the airport to gain points and to show i am really interested in her or that actually could be a beta approach?

Thanks a lot guys

No....you are not in a relationship. This is boyfriend behavior. Do what @Tictac said it is good advice.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Do what you want to do. If you feel like driving her, drive her. If it is a long distance to the airport treat it like a date. It also let's you know where she lives if you don't already know. Don't be a chump but use the opportunity to flirt some more.
If you don't feel like driving her don't. She already likes you, so relax a bit.

 

[dude99]

Hi guys. So here is my question. I met this girl (22 yo) who I went to 3 dates with jer, all good sje likes me although she did most of the "chase" this past weeks. Did not have sex woth her yet. Tomorrow she is going for a week to visit her parents back home. The question is should i offer to take her to the airport to gain points and to show i am really interested in her or that actually could be a beta approach?

Thanks a lot guys

She is only 22 years old. Not mature enough to know what she wants in a relationship yet. I wouldn't take anything seriously at all with a lady under 25. Their wants change with the direction of the wind. Date her have fun but after only 3 dates don't take anything too serious. Keep it light and fun.

 

[EyeBRollin]

No. You've been on three dates with her with no sex. Don't initiate contact with this woman ever again. If she reaches out, invite her to your place. If she doesn't **** you, delete her number.