"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On the Taboo of Knowing Oneself

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dunno it. But Alan Watts is good. I have The Wisdom of Insecurity in my Amazon wishlist.

Will give it a try but I hate reading PDFs. I've just bought a Kindle so I will be able to read those e-books in the comfort of my sofa without the blue light striking my brain cells.
 

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Dunno it. But Alan Watts is good. I have The Wisdom of Insecurity in my Amazon wishlist.

Will give it a try but I hate reading PDFs. I've just bought a Kindle so I will be able to read those e-books in the comfort of my sofa without the blue light striking my brain cells.
I've got a Kobo, which has one good thing going, which is that I can download any PDF onto it. If you don't like blue light, like myself, try downloading f.lux. It eliminates the blue light and functions in a custom mode, or follows the sun at your location.
 

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I've got a Kobo, which has one good thing going, which is that I can download any PDF onto it. If you don't like blue light, like myself, try downloading f.lux. It eliminates the blue light and functions in a custom mode, or follows the sun at your location.
Ah nice ! Will give f.lux a try. Thanks.
 
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