"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So i meet this blonde chick out in a bar Saturday night , we swapped numbers and sh1t ( i don’t usually do blondes but variety is the spice of life right)

So on Monday she texts me to say she had a great night and whatever and she would like to see me again

I don’t really remember what she looks like and i cant really see much in her whatsapp pic ,

but i decide to give her a yard and suggest we go to a new Indian restaurant i know on Friday ,

she asks me if thats where i take all my girls ( wtf)

i acknowledge the sh1t test and simply answer “ no they get taken too mcdonalds its cheaper”

well fvck me if i never .........since then she hasn’t fvcking stopped messaging me
“good morning J xx”

“How has your day been J xx”

“ omg im so bored :/ xx”

I can now safely say i understand why girls have lost all respect for men , shes turned me off so much with these texts i don’t even want to see her tmorrow

A rare view from the otherside gentlemen
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounds like a girl who doesnt get asked out much and you made her feel special. Kudos for that but now she is going to haunt you.
 

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So i meet this blonde chick out in a bar Saturday night , we swapped numbers and sh1t ( i don’t usually do blondes but variety is the spice of life right)

So on Monday she texts me to say she had a great night and whatever and she would like to see me again

I don’t really remember what she looks like and i cant really see much in her whatsapp pic ,

but i decide to give her a yard and suggest we go to a new Indian restaurant i know on Friday ,

she asks me if thats where i take all my girls ( wtf)

i acknowledge the sh1t test and simply answer “ no they get taken too mcdonalds its cheaper”

well fvck me if i never .........since then she hasn’t fvcking stopped messaging me
“good morning J xx”

“How has your day been J xx”

“ omg im so bored :/ xx”

I can now safely say i understand why girls have lost all respect for men , shes turned me off so much with these texts i don’t even want to see her tmorrow

A rare view from the otherside gentlemen
For most guys here, it's what we look like to 'them'.
 

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yes i agree , and its easy to see from that example why its such a turn off
 

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She seems pleasant enough. Take her out and then you can judge for yourself if she's going to turn into an Annie Wilkes type.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Be a bit careful, i've had this kind of situation before, there's usually a reason clingy girls are clingy, and it could be a red flag to something worse.

Nothing wrong with having some fun, but dont give her your adress or where you work
 
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