Average to below average looking guys that always...

[marmel75]

have hot plates/girlfriends. We all know people like this. That you look at and are like this dude is not good looking at all, but yet somehow he has hot chicks all over him. And to make it clear, I am not talking about a guy that picks up chicks because of his "game", I'm talking about the guys who walk into a room and women say to each other "That guy is hot!", except he looks like some average dude if not below average looks wise to another guy(i.e., a guy you would look at and say "If he can get a chick that looks like that, anyone can...")

What do you think contributes to this? Is it something "quirky" he might have that guys dont see that women find really attractive? Always have wondered about this...and honestly what caused me to post this is that MMA fighter who is dating Rhonda Rousey(Travis Browne). Rhonda isn't super hot, but she is good looking, far more so than him, and then you look at his wife who he is getting divorced from and she is a fitness model with an unbelievable body and is also much better looking than him.

 

[zekko]

I'm talking about the guys who walk into a room and women say to each other "That guy is hot!", except he looks like some average dude if not below average looks wise to another guy

To be honest, I've never a bunch of girls talk about a guy being hot who just walked into the room, unless he really was a good looking guy, and probably a tall one at that. So I know the community talks about transforming average guys into men who command this sort of response just by the way they carry themselves, but I haven't really seen it. Even on Mystery's show, "The Pickup Artist", they tried to pick a good looking dude to be the winner.

Now average looking guys with hot girlfriends, yeah we've all seen that. Usually these guys have some sort of appeal if you look closer at them - some sort of charisma or social smoothness, lots of friends, leader of the local rock climbing community, money, easy access to drugs, something.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I have a friend like that, below average looking, but if goofy and outgoing likes to talk and gets a good amount of females

 

[l__i__l]

I think it's natural confidence, which is quite attractive.

 

[Bible_Belt]

https://cdn0.vox-cdn.com/thumbor/pm...23/185_Travis_Browne_vs_Matt_Mitrione.0.0.jpg

That's what Travis Browne did to a previous opponent. He could kick everyone's ass here, myself included, and that's why he is fvcking Rhonda Rousey.

 

[badboyjmm]

''Average " dudes typically, in my opinion put more effort into their personality and into getting girls than ''good looking'' dudes since they don't except things to be handed to them.

 

[wifehunter]

some sort of charisma or social smoothness

Yeah, he be talkin' bout the ladies man right there!

 

[Speculator E]

What do you think contributes to this? Is it something "quirky" he might have that guys dont see that women find really attractive? Always have wondered about this...and honestly what caused me to post this is that MMA fighter who is dating Rhonda Rousey(Travis Browne). Rhonda isn't super hot, but she is good looking, far more so than him, and then you look at his wife who he is getting divorced from and she is a fitness model with an unbelievable body and is also much better looking than him.

WTF? He got the alpha look down. You are probably a bad judge of what's women consider attractive.

 

[zekko]

Men can't really understand female attraction. Height, eye color, nose, other nuances that men are not going to notice.

I agree with this. Men are attracted to an entirely different set of features than women are. What females find attractive is not going to compute with us. Some things are universal, like signs of health - clear, healthy skin, good posture, that sort of thing. But what women find attractive is not going to appeal to us, so we can't really see it.

 

[AttackFormation]

Travis Browne is tatted and has a beard. In other words, he has two qualities that in of themselves (because of their superficial and stunted thought processes) marks/makes you as a "bad boy" to women which you can confirm for yourself if you read what they say they want on their OLD profiles. So that helps his case at least. The beard has factors making it attractive beyond that too, which summed up, depend on both internal (what's the womans' current sexual cycle/personal disposition) and external (are beards going in or out of fashion) reasons.

 

[foreverAFC]

have hot plates/girlfriends. We all know people like this. That you look at and are like this dude is not good looking at all, but yet somehow he has hot chicks all over him. And to make it clear, I am not talking about a guy that picks up chicks because of his "game", I'm talking about the guys who walk into a room and women say to each other "That guy is hot!", except he looks like some average dude if not below average looks wise to another guy(i.e., a guy you would look at and say "If he can get a chick that looks like that, anyone can...")

What do you think contributes to this? Is it something "quirky" he might have that guys dont see that women find really attractive? Always have wondered about this...and honestly what caused me to post this is that MMA fighter who is dating Rhonda Rousey(Travis Browne). Rhonda isn't super hot, but she is good looking, far more so than him, and then you look at his wife who he is getting divorced from and she is a fitness model with an unbelievable body and is also much better looking than him.

travis brown is 6'7 and a pro athlete, his height alone makes him attractive to women

 

[Atom Smasher]

In my field work the closest definition of that attraction factor that I can come up with is "the projection of self-respect".

When I'm dressed well (not over-dressed, but just a notch above my surroundings), and carrying myself with an air of self-respect, that's when the magic happens. That's what I think that indefinable attraction factor really is.