Friendzone

[tennisbuck12]

Board,

I've been recently been put in the friendzone. It was hard to make a move on this girl very protective/not very flirty. Problem is I still like her (for whatever) reason and want to get strategy to get her back. I haven't contacted her in a week and have been seeing other women. I'm not going to let this dictate my life, but want to do everything I can.

Is the best course of path just to sit tight and let her contact me.

Alex

 

[Tictac]

Yes. And if she doesn't, you know what you need to know.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Yep. Walk away for good and learn my lesson. That no chick is worth what I did (expensive xmas gift, pick up for work, suprise her with dinner, etc).

Should of just taken her out drinking

 

[AllDay85]

Yep. Walk away for good and learn my lesson. That no chick is worth what I did (expensive xmas gift, pick up for work, suprise her with dinner, etc).

Should of just taken her out drinking

Expensive gift and all that elaborate beta-guy stuff is the reason you got friend-zoned in the first place, remember that.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Yep. I used my heart, instead of my brain.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Yep. Walk away for good and learn my lesson. That no chick is worth what I did (expensive xmas gift, pick up for work, suprise

 

[Stugots26]

I like your attitude. Everyone makes mistakes, but if you learn from them, you WILL become a very high quality man. If you want, though, it wouldn't be the end of the world to text her something like:
"Hey name, meet me at x place at x time." If she flakes with no counter offer, then she's gone for good. If she does show, escalate and get sexual. If she blocks your advances, then she's gone from your life. Easy as that.

Respectfully disagree. Your time and attention is your currency. Only do this if she gets in touch with you. When she does, your suggestion of a meet up can either be accepted, or it's a call to her bluff.

 

[wifehunter]

friendzone = byebyezone