Lesson learned date that was crap.

[Shootin4Dreams]

I went out with this girl monday night it was target practiced. I picked her up from her house (she lived near hood area) She was fat so that wasn't a great thing. I thought well I am just gonna try to get laid. So, I noticed I was relaxed and cool which she I guess that got the vibe from me so we was both pretty chill. We went and had drinks and I felt like I rushed it and said you ready to go? I literally just drove to my house and she was like where are we going? I said to my house to hang out a little bit. I felt a little weird because I didnt mention anything so it was a little awkward. I tried to make a move after when I put netflix on she was like i dont think so nice try. I wasn't very happy I tried to do a freeze out and then she asked where you at when i went in the bedroom. I said I am on computer. Then she was saying had to leave in a bit I said you ready to go now. Then we talked on the way back and I said you think I was cool? She said yeah she did and had a good time she said it was just weird at the end. I said yeah I got back in the game trying to work out my kinks excuse those. And said I am trying to be that alpha male mindset you know what i mean? She was a little like yeah said I was a bit in the middle I felt like a dumbass I dropped her off then yeah lmao. So, that was stupid but practice.

 

[Maximus Rex]

I picked her up from her house (she lived near hood area)

She was fat so that wasn't a great thing.

I tried to make a move after when I put Netflix on. She was like I don't think so, nice try.

And this is why you should only give your time and attention to 7.5's (preferably 8's,) and up. These lackluster and fat hoes get real beside themselves when you give them attention. Best believe she got on the phone with her potnas on how you tried to make a move, she shot you down, and they laughed over it. I hope she at least looked like this chick.

 

[parkthebus]

Lol youbleft her on her own and went on the computer?

 

[Serenity]

What the fvck did I just imagine??! Even I could feel the awkward of your situation. The Netflix and chill move is the stupidest sh!t ever to come out of social media, it's painfully obvious and awkward as fvck. Going into another room while having someone over doesn't exactly help relieve the awkwardness of it, that's pure avoidance and extremely uncomfortable for those visiting.

 

[Skyline]

Lol youbleft her on her own and went on the computer?

He left her alone while he wrote this on SS.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The brutal honesty at the end was a nice touch. It's like you knew you'd never see her again, so you just stopped giving a sh!t about what you said. LOL It's good and bad. It's bad to tell a woman things like "I'm trying to be alpha," but at the same time, if you really are alpha, then you don't give a sh!t what she thinks about anything you say. That's where you were at the end of the date. If you can start off that way, and not care if you get laid or not, that makes you a lot more fun, and also helps you get laid in the end.

 

[HoneyHitter]

You are still terribly insecure. What you did at the end is equivalent to telling a fighting opponent how bad your right knee hurts. And then act surprised when he actually kicks it.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

I was trying to do a freezeout. Guys said to do it if she wont oblige with you. I wouldnt say I am insecure I am just trying to figure out why these women wont sleep with me when I have slept with hotter women? I had a date tonight and it went really well she talked most of the time I kinoed etc.. I ****ed up at the end though and said want to come over and watch a movie? She said Im not a freak! in a joking way shes like I am watching you I see you I said you cant see me did ;;john cena taunt;; and was messing with her she said she would definitely hangout again but wasnt worth it because she was fat and half hour late. Bill told me I should of ignored her and asked again if she wanted to come over because it was **** test oh well I live and learn.

Well how do you invite a girl over if you dont ask her to come watch a movie?

 

[Glumix]

It's good you try stuff!

You fail. Try again. Learn everytime. And keep dancing.

Well how do you invite a girl over if you dont ask her to come watch a movie?

You don't. She does.

Stop focusing on technique. Focus on your mindset. Enjoy your time and have fun above all.

Faties and uglies need to be hit in the brain as well. It's not because they are what they are that they will sleep with the first nobody who comes around. You should process with them the same way you process with hotties.

Though, personaly, I would not go for faties. I have engulfment fear.

 

[Floydispink01]

He left her alone while he wrote this on SS.

He's taken the Walk away ploy to the extreme here. Quality.

 

[Skyline]

Not sure how you met this girl, but why are you chubby chasing? There's thick and there is fat, thick girls are desirable but fat is not.

You can't have a good time with someone you're trying to get with if you think she's unattractive. You have to be drunk to do that.

 

[Reykhel]

The problem with fatties, apart from the obvious hideous element......
is that you have to monitor their hunger levels all of the time....your thinking
"Let's fvck" she's thinking/drooling "burger king...." .....you're thinking her excessive
salivating is an IOI that she wants your house special when really she wants duck satay...

Maybe your freeze-out should have included a trip to the kitchen to throw on a few
pork chops for Rosie O'Donnell........full belly fattie will fvck you long time..

If a fattie is been a bytch say to her "I thought you people were supposed to be jolly"

.......seriously, elevate your taste, man

I ain't fvckin' with you anyway cause I know you're a nasty girl...

 

[marmel75]

Honestly OP, what did you expect? Just be happy you didn't get her clothes off because you might have been scarred for life and would have really regretted it afterwards more than likely...

you can do better than some chick who has no self respect for herself...that is, unless you have no self respect for yourself...

 

[Maximus Rex]

There's thick and there is fat, thick girls are desirable but fat is not.

Thick

Fat. Any questions?

 

[dustmuffin]

Ok....I just set up a second date. She is meeting me at my house after work so we can drive together....date is messican food since i live in the mrxican hood. Cost max 25 bucks....She will suck on my burrito afterwards. I have used the meet me at my house ploy with good success.

 

[parkthebus]

Ok....I just set up a second date. She is meeting me at my house after work so we can drive together....date is messican food since i live in the mrxican hood. Cost max 25 bucks....She will suck on my burrito afterwards. I have used the meet me at my house ploy with good success.

Is the meet at my house ploy intended to build comfort?

 

[dustmuffin]

Is the meet at my house ploy intended to build comfort?

No it is intended to make it easy for me to get in their pants. If it comforts them great.

Driving together might build comfort. Might be why it has worked so well.

 

[parkthebus]

How do you get in their pants by having them meet at your house, if its the start of the date?

 

[Serenity]

No it is intended to make it easy for me to get in their pants. If it comforts them great.

Driving together might build comfort. Might be why it has worked so well.

In my experience women have hightened anxiety when coming to my place the first few times, they're not idiots and know very well I might make moves and they don't know me enough to be sure I'll respect boundaries without being an a$$ about it. It's unknown territory to them so it's understandable, helping them feel comfortable is my responsibility. They won't come back if they didn't enjoy it and they can't enjoy it if it's uncomfortable. Taking the time and having the patience to make them feel good is more important than rushing to get in their pants, they're a lot easier as well if they feel good about it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

In my experience women have hightened anxiety when coming to my place the first few times, they're not idiots and know very well I might make moves and they don't know me enough to be sure I'll respect boundaries without being an a$$ about it. It's unknown territory to them so it's understandable, helping them feel comfortable is my responsibility. They won't come back if they didn't enjoy it and they can't enjoy it if it's uncomfortable. Taking the time and having the patience to make them feel good is more important than rushing to get in their pants, they're a lot easier as well if they feel good about it.

That's why it's easier to go into their house for this sort of thing, their comfort level will be a bit higher than bringing her in your space.