"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its usually always one girl that is in the equation of our ideas and discussions.

But let's strive to help each other out to get 4 in one bed, etc.

That's the types of threads that should be going on here. Otherwise, I'm sorry to say its been a full year of just oneitis shyness etc...frankly, therapy is more useful for that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Therapy ? Finding a good therapist is about the same odds as finding a good 39yo woman to marry in America. Possible but not easy.

To many guys here, myself included, this is my therapy. Why in the hell would I want to pay some therapist to tell me the same sh!t stained blue pill jargon about life that I believed for 35 years? Until I wised up and figured out that it was fictious content, just like my bugs bunny avatar!
 
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Therapy ? Finding a good therapist is about the same odds as finding a good 39yo woman to marry in America. Possible but not easy.

To many guys here, myself included, this is my therapy. Why in the hell would I want to pay some therapist to tell me the same sh!t stained blue pill jargon about life that I believed for 35 years? Until I wised up and figured out that it was fictious content, just like my bugs bunny avatar!
Correct. These "experts" are putting out HR-approved feminist tropes that will chalk up your breakup to "communication is key in relationships" thus you probably didn't "listen to her." These frauds steal $250 an hour to lie to your face.

Understand something, most corporations and independent contractors alike work off of a fem-centric agenda because women make up 75% of the spending in this consumerist economy. They need to keep the demographic spending the majority of the money happy.
 

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Still....my point was that after so many years...most of us haven't got down how to get a girl, so maybe we should focus on all of us getting multiple girls.

Idk...
 

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Still....my point was that after so many years...most of us haven't got down how to get a girl, so maybe we should focus on all of us getting multiple girls.

Idk...
One good is enough for me. Don't have neither the time nor the energy for more.

We are not all at the same level. You cannot ask a 20 yo to want the same as a 35 or 55. If you come here at 35 you will certainly have a much harder time swallowing the red pill than a teen who's been barely molded by his life and still have to learn a lot.

I would be really curious to have some honest reports of some of the biggest women-eaters here who brag about how many girls they hit on Saturday night when they will actually fall in love and be in a relationship.

SS is my therapy even though I am lucky I found an anti-feminist therapist as well.

I am really new here but I think we need to grow some "nobody left behind" mentality if we want to win this war.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Still....my point was that after so many years...most of us haven't got down how to get a girl, so maybe we should focus on all of us getting multiple girls.

Idk...
That information is here in the DJ bible and on multiple threads. I get nuggets of helpful info from every thread I read. You must take action for this stuff to work. You have to have confidence and be willing to fail to be a success. Impliment adive given to you. This is not easy. Its work.

Pm some of the more experienced members for advice. Most will happily help you. I currently chat on the phone with a few to offer support and tips.

We help each other because no one understands our mission better than one of our brethern.

Getting a girl is not easy. That's a fact.
 
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