Situation

[tennisbuck12]

So I've been dating this check (religious) for 3 months and never seemed available emotionally or on the weekends. Hard to set up dates with, but she always arranged something when she said no. So last night I askek her, should I continue to asking her out.

She responded I'm in the friend zone and she doesn't feel the chemistry. Keep in mind in 3 months I never got any play, and it bothered me but I was seeing another chick who that wasn't a problem.
Do I have a play on the friendzone girl? Should I just delete her off facebook and never contact her again. We're both 32.

 

[NSX-R]

You were dating that chick for 3 months, she welcomes you in the friend zone and you still believe there is hope?

Get out of here.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Nope, I was hoping for a glimmer of hope

 

[Tictac]

If you're looking for a glimmer (low probability since you acted all needy), do this -

Wait for her to call you. When she does, ask her out for a date, certain as to time and place. If she agrees, go on the date where you will not even think about doing anything but have a good time, having fun on the date. If she declines, make no counter-offer. Say only, 'okay, let me know when you're free to go out'. Politely end the call right then and do not reach out to her again.

Do not call her to do this, wait.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Nope, I was hoping for a glimmer of hope

You won't have hope unless you have improved in some large way and she heard up thru the grapevine or her social circle that your making the rounds with other females. You won't gain any traction coming at this one, she needs a reason to be interested in her. Until then absence is your best friend. I'd check on her in 3 months.