mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Could be he's graduated to puzzy and her new guy is getting blown.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
More passive aggressive behavior from plate, thinking about dumping her
- Thread starter BackInTheGame78
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CuddleJunkie
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I love reading these field reports. It's where I learn the most for sure. I don't know how women can live with all this **** going on in their heads, it would drive me crazy lol.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
As long as you don't try to understand you will be fine.
BackInTheGame78
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UPDATE:
Been a weird 3 weeks since I posted this. I've been really busy as I'm working, working out and now enrolled in Computer Science online courses, so I've had little free time. She has been picking up extra shifts because she is going on 3 vacations in the next 3 months so she is trying to bank as much OT as possible. Texted her typically once every 2 or 3 days, almost always initiated by her...
Late last week I get the "I miss u" text from her and she says she wants to see me. I tell her that's cool and to let me know when she is available. She texts me a few days later and says she has some time Thursday but has to work that night, so we make plans. Basically grabbed a quick bite, and then hung out in the back of her SUV and made out, talked, etc...no sex, but I wasn't really expecting any due to time constraints(only had a few hours, I got off work late).
So she texts me about an hour after we left and says:
"Thank you BITG, I enjoyed seeing you and hope we can do it again soon."
Didn't respond and then texts me again about 20 minutes later:
"Sorry it's been a while. I'm happy with the way things are hope you are too!"
WTF does this even mean? Its so ambiguous...it could either mean she was happy to see me again and wants things to continue as they have been(ie, us meeting and fvcking most of the time), or it could mean she is happy with how things are now seeing me every 3 weeks and not having sex with me. Or it could be in response to the whole "exclusivity" thing from 3 weeks ago, ie, she wants to continue dating and fvcking but not be exclusive, which is perfectly fine with me.
My initial thought was to send a response in the morning to the first text saying I enjoyed spending time with her, blah blah blah...and to ignore the second text unless she brings it up again.
Thoughts?
Been a weird 3 weeks since I posted this. I've been really busy as I'm working, working out and now enrolled in Computer Science online courses, so I've had little free time. She has been picking up extra shifts because she is going on 3 vacations in the next 3 months so she is trying to bank as much OT as possible. Texted her typically once every 2 or 3 days, almost always initiated by her...
Late last week I get the "I miss u" text from her and she says she wants to see me. I tell her that's cool and to let me know when she is available. She texts me a few days later and says she has some time Thursday but has to work that night, so we make plans. Basically grabbed a quick bite, and then hung out in the back of her SUV and made out, talked, etc...no sex, but I wasn't really expecting any due to time constraints(only had a few hours, I got off work late).
So she texts me about an hour after we left and says:
"Thank you BITG, I enjoyed seeing you and hope we can do it again soon."
Didn't respond and then texts me again about 20 minutes later:
"Sorry it's been a while. I'm happy with the way things are hope you are too!"
WTF does this even mean? Its so ambiguous...it could either mean she was happy to see me again and wants things to continue as they have been(ie, us meeting and fvcking most of the time), or it could mean she is happy with how things are now seeing me every 3 weeks and not having sex with me. Or it could be in response to the whole "exclusivity" thing from 3 weeks ago, ie, she wants to continue dating and fvcking but not be exclusive, which is perfectly fine with me.
My initial thought was to send a response in the morning to the first text saying I enjoyed spending time with her, blah blah blah...and to ignore the second text unless she brings it up again.
Thoughts?