Sh1t tests we administer

[wifehunter]

Since the Ladies seem to be having all the fun... Why don't we test them the way they test us??? Seems like a good idea to me. Any opinions?

 

[beforeimgone]

I wouldn't call it sh1t test. I'd say it's more of a demand and expecting her to submit to your leadership with a smile on her face due to the demonstrated belief that you are willing to walk away if she ever decides not to comply.

 

[Vivacity]

Since the Ladies seem to be having all the fun... Why don't we test them the way they test us??? Seems like a good idea to me. Any opinions?

They test you because you allow them to. Walk away until she/her group becomes aware that you don't tolerate them any more. The word about your attitude gets out pretty fast. They will stop it, ultimately. Stop being a beta orbiter.

 

[Vivacity]

They test you because you allow them to. Walk away until she/her group becomes aware that you don't tolerate them any more. The word about your "willingness to walk away" attitude gets out pretty fast. They will stop it, ultimately. Stop being a beta orbiter.

 

[wifehunter]

Stop being a beta orbiter.

Trouble with the ladies??? LOL!!!

 

[icantgetlaid]

I find myself doing sh1t tests ... i'll say super provocative sh1t ... if she doesn't walk away after that .. i know she's mine for the fvcking

 

[wifehunter]

I wouldn't call it sh1t test. I'd say it's more of a demand and expecting her to submit to your leadership with a smile on her face due to the demonstrated belief that you are willing to walk away if she ever decides not to comply.

Yes, walking away seems to be the only thing!!! But, will it turn a girl into a woman? So simple, yet so complicated.

 

[wifehunter]

I find myself doing sh1t tests ... i'll say super provocative sh1t ...

hmm... I can only imagine. Is there a womanhood test?

 

[marmel75]

Men don't do this. That's for women. If a man doesn't approve of a woman's actions he simply walks away

 

[beforeimgone]

Yes, walking away seems to be the only thing!!! But, will it turn a girl into a woman? So simple, yet so complicated.

Nah, it's impossible to change a woman's core. If her core sucks then she will suck overall.

 

[beforeimgone]

You can dominate and demand, but it's a slow process, and I can't be bothered.

It's a necessary evil if you deem a girl worthy enough or in need of a family.

 

[beforeimgone]

True, but I have no intentions of marriage, and it's easier to pick up new women than to change any one woman, I've found.

I used to try and change women, when I was a hopeless beta. It came from a scarcity mindset, and never worked out. I proclaim, from experience, that the only way to change a woman is from a position of strength and dominance. I shall give an example:

My uncle runs clubs. He gets a lot of attention from women, and ended up with a very attractive wife and children. The problem is that he is a beta provider at heart. The woman was a terrible housewife and mother. She saw her job as being only a trophy. She ended up cheating on him and running off with an alpha male, black guy who doesn't have a pot to p*ss in (which was a big disgrace. Excuse the racism, but that is how it was perceived). Now as the woman of an alpha-male she cooks, cleans, does the school run, etc. She is a changed woman. Funny that...

I agree. Dominance rules in relationships and it's always easier to bed a female than to mold one into your perfect housewife.


Why the aversion to marriage?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Nawww man. I dont feel like stressing over the mental games and whatnot. I'd mch rather just do my own thing rather than get back at women for something they cant help.

 

[logicallefty]

I don't go out of my way to administer sh|t tests on women I date, but I do find myself scrutinizing them looking for common things that most of my past women did that I did not like. It's funny how similar so many women are. I can often see a situation coming and predict how she is going to respond because I know how women of my past have responded and so many of women all act the same.. They really do. When she does something bad enough I will sometimes say the words "deja vu" to a women to let her know that I have seen whatever behavior she did before and I do not like it at all. Enough "deja vu" from me and she is dumped. I have even let women know I dumped her for "too much deja vu". Don't need to say much else because she has already been warned before what the deja vu was.

 

[beforeimgone]

Such a simple question, but it penetrates the core of my philosophy. Excuse any potential ramblings - it's Christmas eve, and i've been drinking wine.

I grew up with the goal and intention of getting married to 'the one'. I am a romanticist at heart. I love Shakespeare, my favorite band is Him (I even have the tattoo). Any woman that deserves it gets some unforgettable nights of romance.

But once I gained enough exposure to the toxic nature of women, I was turned off quite frankly. Marriage in the 21st century doesn't benefit a man's interests at all. One must be alpha and in control at all times in order to navigate marriage successfully, and I, quite frankly, am not an alpha-male. I have some of the characteristics, sure. But really, I am a reformed beta, hopeless romantic, that has taken on omega traits in order to survive the ruthless SMP (hence the avatar). And, who can argue with results? I'm now having 10X the amount of sex I was ever getting as a nice guy. Sure, the women come and go, but I have adapted to the harsh reality of the world, and, over the last couple of years, I'm feeling like I'm in control of my life for the first time ever. I am enjoying life and see no reason to fit my whole life around any one particular woman. If anything, that would seem to be a reversion of all of the progress I've made.

EDIT: It's funny - I was asked this question today by family, albeit more covertly. I merely told them that there is no potential wife: 'where are all the good women?' or 'I haven't met the right one' etc. It's good to have a place where you can just tell it like it is.

I can understand why you're a hopeless romantic. From a young age, you were bombarded with Disney romances, Hollywood portrayals of love and I'm assuming that your mother and father are not together and you weren't raised by your father. These factors all attribute to the inevitable development of a hopeless romantic. They aren't the only factors though.


Unlimited sex is fine for a while, but after a while doesn't it become boring? For me, it did.


Being that you definitely appear to know what it takes to keep a woman in love, do you feel as if you are good enough to keep a woman in a marriage? Honestly


I'm married and my wife is still in love and jumps to my every whim with a smile on her face. I have some useful bits of information you could read up on if interested.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

I can understand why you're a hopeless romantic. From a young age, you were bombarded with Disney romances, Hollywood portrayals of love and I'm assuming that your mother and father are not together and you weren't raised by your father. These factors all attribute to the inevitable development of a hopeless romantic. They aren't the only factors though.


Unlimited sex is fine for a while, but after a while doesn't it become boring? For me, it did.


Being that you definitely appear to know what it takes to keep a woman in love, do you feel as if you are good enough to keep a woman in a marriage? Honestly


I'm married and my wife is still in love and jumps to my every whim with a smile on her face. I have some useful bits of information you could read up on if interested.

Share your resources and tips with me mate please. I've lost all hope with women but I still want to have and raise a son, so I'm interested in maintaining a marriage long enough. Also I like your disciplinary focus.

 

[beforeimgone]

I'm always interested in self-improvement, and would appreciate it, mate. You've hit the nail on the head with your deduction of me. Except for one point: it's not that I don't think I have what it takes, quite the opposite, I think that I would make an amazing husband. I just have lost the faith that it's worth it to be a great husband to be honest. I've developed another lifestyle which is very exciting. Like a secret society that I was excluded from my entire life. I'm not at the point of it being bored yet, but perhaps you are well ahead of me in your development. I would be happy for any advice and am always open to knowledge.

Yea, man i gotcha.


An amazing father by your definition is different from an amazing father by a woman's definition. Her reality is your reality. despite what hollywood tells you, love can be manufactured. In order for her to love you many factors have to be at play. The first is you have to be attractive to her. That can be controlled to a certain extent, but that's mainly genetics and gym time. lol


Everyone wants to have a woman completely devoted to his needs and whims. Being that women are made to follow how they feel all you have to do is learn how to make her feel love and sexy and feminine.


For love: read up on sunk cost theory(economics), making her invest(doing what you want, paying for your food, sending you nudes, calling you daddy instead of your name, you could even use it to get into her bank account because anything she goes out of her way to do for you makes her love you more), and helper's high.


For keeping her in her place: disciplining a child, disciplining a submissive, broken glass theory, domestic discipline, and what it's like to be punished from a woman's perspective.

This is for the other guy too. I couldn't figure out how to tag you both in one message

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Thanks mate, I'm going to read about that stuff.

 

[beforeimgone]

Thanks mate, I'm going to read about that stuff.

You're welcome. Let me know what you think bro

 

[EyeBRollin]

I'm with the gentlemen on here; no **** tests need to be administered.

When a woman acts up, I either withdraw attention or walk away completely.