Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i already said I'm waiting for a 100% clear signal she wants to be asked out. So far nothing has been 100%. I believe if I wait until it's closer to valentines day it'll put pressure on her to do something so she will or will not give better signals.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This chick is obviously something less than a 5 because this idiot f*ck thinks that has has zero else going on in her life and will have no other men trying to holla at her in the next two months.
I don't understand the hostility. I am following the advice of making the girl chase. Which I believe you have mentioned before numerous time. As for other guys hollaring at her I do not think there are as I have not heard anything. And she is close to a 8 9 or 10. Tall skinny and of european descent. I have picture but I'm not going to post it. Really you guys sound like hypocrites with bad or no advice.
Because you're f*cking up the board with troll bullsh*t.
Chicks don't span two f*cking points on the hot babe 10 point rating scale. spectrum.
And would you know? Are you the creepy, needy, stalker dude in her life? As far as you she might have been getting triple penetrated over the weekend.
Because you don't have a picture.
Nailed it.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's because she isn't hot, you don't have one, or she doesn't exist.
You were given advice and when you were given said advice, you had nerve enough to ridicule and argue about the advice that members on this board took time out of their lives to give you. The Don Juans are not here to aid and abet your beta male faggotry. If you want people to give you aid and comfort in your b*tchassnees, then go and register at http://www.loveshack.org/ They'll be more than happy to accommodate you.
Dude, nobody cares about this figment of your imagination that you're talking about. As a matter of fact this thread should be locked.
You were given real advice. You were told to ask her out. Instead, you're making excuses and you're waiting for her to take her clothes off in front of you or some 5hit.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.