That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i already said I'm waiting for a 100% clear signal she wants to be asked out. So far nothing has been 100%. I believe if I wait until it's closer to valentines day it'll put pressure on her to do something so she will or will not give better signals.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This chick is obviously something less than a 5 because this idiot f*ck thinks that has has zero else going on in her life and will have no other men trying to holla at her in the next two months.
I don't understand the hostility. I am following the advice of making the girl chase. Which I believe you have mentioned before numerous time. As for other guys hollaring at her I do not think there are as I have not heard anything. And she is close to a 8 9 or 10. Tall skinny and of european descent. I have picture but I'm not going to post it. Really you guys sound like hypocrites with bad or no advice.
Because you're f*cking up the board with troll bullsh*t.
Chicks don't span two f*cking points on the hot babe 10 point rating scale. spectrum.
And would you know? Are you the creepy, needy, stalker dude in her life? As far as you she might have been getting triple penetrated over the weekend.
Because you don't have a picture.
Nailed it.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's because she isn't hot, you don't have one, or she doesn't exist.
You were given advice and when you were given said advice, you had nerve enough to ridicule and argue about the advice that members on this board took time out of their lives to give you. The Don Juans are not here to aid and abet your beta male faggotry. If you want people to give you aid and comfort in your b*tchassnees, then go and register at http://www.loveshack.org/ They'll be more than happy to accommodate you.
Dude, nobody cares about this figment of your imagination that you're talking about. As a matter of fact this thread should be locked.
You were given real advice. You were told to ask her out. Instead, you're making excuses and you're waiting for her to take her clothes off in front of you or some 5hit.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.