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Were your BPDs tatooed, pierced or ornamented in any ways?

Glumix

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It seems there is a close relation between physical ornamentations and BPD. What's your experiences?

ALL the BPDs I know are tatooed, either on their back or have piercings at body parts other than the ears. I had one of my BPDs who hated tatoos and despised tatooed women but had a huge piercing in her belly. If only I had known...

That is explained because it distracts them from their emotional anguish and pain, pretty much like cutting their skin or coloring books. It also creates superficial feminity that does not exist genuinely in them.

That + too much care of her apparence and health, skin cuts or scars, might be huge red flags, for me at least, for the next encounters with women.
 

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My BPD girl was covered in sh!tty amateur tats, done by ghetto morons who were typically doing it for free as a way to hit on her.
 

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sh!tty amateur tats
I think its more this type you have to be wary of. Tats are fairly common these days so I don't really like to class every girl with a few tats as a bpd. I see where your coming from though.
 

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Mine has. When we started dating she had one in her lower back , with the initials of a past boyfriend and hers (I know, big red flag, but I was too young and stupid) then, when we were about to get married, that one was covered with an ornamented skull. Later, when our kids born, she got another in her left wrist with the birth dates of the children. Then we got divorced becaused she started banging some guy that she had met on twitter. Maybe she banged a lot of men while we were married but I'll never know that for sure. She met her current boyfriend also on twitter. She also went through cosmetic surgery after the pregnancies, maybe another trait of low quality.
 

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To be fair, I have a FwB who has cheapish tattoos and dyes her hair alot... she may be slightly crazy but I genuinely like her. I mean, don't you like a touch of crazy sometimes?

Of course, she could never by my girlfriend.
 

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Yes, she had a few tattoos, dyed hair, belly ring, and other piercings, an armada of beauty products and the most ridiculous green eyes ever.

Good riddance. I feel bad for the person who has to deal with her now.
 

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To be fair, I have a FwB who has cheapish tattoos and dyes her hair alot... she may be slightly crazy but I genuinely like her. I mean, don't you like a touch of crazy sometimes?

Of course, she could never by my girlfriend.
I would welcome a sane girl. I have had as much crazy as I can stand.
 

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Tattoos - nothing special but had two.
 

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I have dated a therapist with many large tattoos. I nexted her about two weeks ago. She texted me yesterday wanting to go out today. I said no maybe another time. She has issues I just don't know what they are....yet..
 

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I have dated a therapist with many large tattoos. I nexted her about two weeks ago. She texted me yesterday wanting to go out today. I said no maybe another time. She has issues I just don't know what they are....yet..
LOOL nice one!!
I agree I have met a few BPDs with tattoos but now tattoos are so common it´s hard to categorize but if she has plenty of big tats it´s a good warning sign!
I also love girls that have a tattoo over their ass I think a girl that gets one only there loves to fvck you can´t go wrong on this one! tribal-butterfly-lower-back-tattoo.jpg
 

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I like to shoot my load on a woman's tramp stamp like the one shown above.. Then take my finger and spread my goop around over the tat in the same shape as the tat. Practicing my tracing skills for next time I take an art class.
 

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The last girl I fvcked with a big tramp stamp, the tat was her husband's name, lol. She had left him and gotten her own place, but they were not divorced yet.
 

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I would welcome a sane girl. I have had as much crazy as I can stand.
I hear you. When I first met her she was kind of a tough nut. Basically I dumped her and call her for sex every now and then. She's suprisingly mature about it and never gives me any sh1t at all. Never expected it to go down like that. Pretty sure she's not really BPD after all.

What can I say, I like the playful fight. Maybe once a month, I invite the crazy into my house.
 

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It'd be so nice if all the BPD bltches were labeled with tats.
 

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Looks can be deceiving. Thats why you have regular pretty girl next door type with a sweet smile turn into a crazy raging kunt.

Then you can have some tatted up stripper who has a heart of gold and is down to earth and not psycho.

These are extreme examples but nature also has its exceptions to commonalities that occur
 

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It'd be so nice if all the BPD bltches were labeled with tats.
When that starts happening I am buying 100% of the stock shares in the biggest tat ink maker out there. That gonna be a lot of fvcking inking going on...
 
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