Is it unreasonable that I'm uneasy if my GF doesn't mention her friend's name?

[Fela Kuti]

Hello,

For example if I ask her who dropped her home from work and she says "a friend" without mentioning her/his name, I'd feel uncomfortable. If I were in his position I'd mention the name so that I don't wonder about things. What do you think? Am I being possessive/unreasonably jealous?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hello,

For example if I ask her who dropped her home from work and she says "a friend" without mentioning her/his name, I'd feel uncomfortable. If I were in his position I'd mention the name so that I don't wonder about things. What do you think? Am I being possessive/unreasonably jealous?

The vagueness of it is unnecessary, but she may feel you want unnecessary details. I don't think anything is wrong with you.

 

[El Payaso]

Two things you can do. One is to not care and not let it bother you. The other is to mentally assume it is a female or gay male friend.

Both will make you feel better.

 

[Fireballs]

Care less

 

[Julian]

^^Disagree with everything said in this thread.


You should ALWAYS call out any and ALL BS on the spot. I learned that the best way to live in peace and confidence is get confirmation on any feelings of unease or at least have a solid answer for any unknowns.

I come from a point of right and wrong. Its not right for me to date a girl and care for her, and not knowing if she is spending her time with some other guy wether its getting a ride or "YOU SAY HES JUST A FRIEND, YOU SAY HES JUST A FRIEND!" hahaha ummm no bich! You got the game wrong and fk you!