"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Soft Generation?

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Hey guys I've been hearing recently that millennials are just a flat out soft generation.

Being 19 myself I'm starting to believe it.

I wouldn't call myself the softest person out their but defiantly not the toughest. I was spoiled as a child and I'm starting to see that being spoiled probably had a negative effect on my life now because I would say I am soft. However I see the vast majority of people my age are way softer than I am.

What are your guys thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys I've been hearing recently that millennials are just a flat out soft generation.

Being 19 myself I'm starting to believe it.

I wouldn't call myself the softest person out their but defiantly not the toughest. I was spoiled as a child and I'm starting to see that being spoiled probably had a negative effect on my life now because I would say I am soft. However I see the vast majority of people my age are way softer than I am.

What are your guys thoughts?
Bunch of sissy Mary pansies.
 

G_Govan

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You're a product of your environment. If you've never had a reason to be tough, well, you won't be. Social conditioning plays a large role as well.

All this nonsense I've been hearing lately about "bullying" is laughable, especially bullying through social media. We're breeding very soft men these days.
 

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IT's called lack of testosterone...each generation has less testosterone than the last...pretty soon 5 year olds are going to be on TRT because their levels are so low
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you were born in the 90's i feel bad for you son. your basically a poosy.You missed the boat by a couple years. When we were kids myspace/fb etc wasnt even in our mind at all. being born in the 90's means you grew up with technology in its heightened modern form and with beta hippy 70's raised parents raising you.
 

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IT's called lack of testosterone...each generation has less testosterone than the last...pretty soon 5 year olds are going to be on TRT because their levels are so low
I am getting injected chock full of T. From a level of 325 to 968. I feel better. It will last a lifetime I imagine but well worth it.
 

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I am getting injected chock full of T. From a level of 325 to 968. I feel better. It will last a lifetime I imagine but well worth it.
Yeah I know the feeling...when I got my levels tested a few years ago I was at 150...haven't been off T since and feel tremendous
 

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Where are you doing that and is it safe
Slow your roll...you are 19, you have no need for that. You want great T levels? Hit the gym, lift weights, eat properly and sleep. At your age that's literally all you need to do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Turn the radio on and try to find a song where a manly voice can be heard. It's impossible.
Even though I believe we live in good times, men need things to turn their survival instinct on. That's what makes a man.
Now you can't just go out and punch every individual you see or turn everybody against you but I believe hitting the gym , taking financial risks, approaching and fcking chicks are some substitutes that can turn your survival instincts on.
 

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Turn the radio on and try to find a song where a manly voice can be heard. It's impossible.
Even though I believe we live in good times, men need things to turn their survival instinct on. That's what makes a man.
Now you can't just go out and punch every individual you see or turn everybody against you but I believe hitting the gym , taking financial risks, approaching and fcking chicks are some substitutes that can turn your survival instincts on.
What kind of finaical risks are you talking about.

Gambling?
 

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Now you can't just go out and punch every individual you see or turn everybody against you but I believe hitting the gym , taking financial risks, approaching and fcking chicks are some substitutes that can turn your survival instincts on.
Those are all more likely to happen when you have high testosterone levels
 

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We live in a world where the feminine imperative MUST always come first so of course men are going to be soft.

There is more push for so called "gender equality" which is code word for addressing only the situations that benefit women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Several decades ago men decided they would start listening more to women and allowing women to make more decisions. Each generation of men since has expanded on that.. giving women more and more say, authority and power over their lives.

Today in 2015/2016 most men are pathetic, desperate, co-dependent emo faggots who have no purpose in life outside of accepting emotional slavery under any and every woman who will take the thrown. Today's men are raised to believe all things masculine are wrong, inappropriate, offensive and crude. But more importantly, men no longer take control of their identity. They allow women to dictate expectations of men, "relationship rules" etc. and they follow along with it.

Today's men don't dictate sh!t. They are puppy dogs worshiping women, employers and celebrities.
 

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What kind of finaical risks are you talking about.

Gambling?
If you live with your parents which cover most of your expenses and you take your life into your hands.

If you have 100k and you choose to invest them somewhere .

There are many examples.
 

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Ahhh I get that. I never bet more than Im willing to lose.

I see no difference between spending 40 bucks at the bar and 40 bucks at the casino. If I make money sick if not oh well i see it as a fun night out vs a way to make money
My dad was a big gambler. He would lose thousands. He would get drunk and ask me if I thought he should bet. I will tell him no. He would do it anyway lose and blame me. Now it wouldn't bother me. As a 16 yo kid it did.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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