"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Female types?

parkthebus

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So I've read a bit about different types of alhpas and also a bit about betas/Omega's/deltas. Anyone thought about or heard of any female types? Or if certain types of females select certain types of males?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dutchmaster

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more like: low quality h0es, average quality h0es and good quality h0es... i'm lucky thats not a feminist forum...
There's still a small sample size of women who aren't h0es

I'd say: low quality h0es, average quality h0es, good quality h0es and the rare 1% that's actually decent women
 

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I'd say women are too externally reactive to male influence to accurately give a type that holds all that much weight and is accurate across a variety of contexts.

For instance, a girl grows up with a strong father figure--she's a 'quality' girl. But if you marry that same girl and you're a simpering beta--she might easily turn into a 'b****y, cheating slvt' within 8 years.

Or you could take a 'b****y wh0re' who will turn into 10/10 wifey material for the right alpha.

You can hedge your bets, but girls are ultimately shaped by the men in their life and will be a different woman for every man she interacts with and, especially, how old she is and how she can best adapt to her current mating strategy.

That said, there are also qualities that might be more fixed. We'll call them innate.

-Introverted vs. Extroverted
-Shy vs. Talkative
-Socially Adept vs. Socially Awkward
-High Sex Drive/Promiscuity vs. Low Sex Drive/Promiscuity
-Smart vs. Dumb
-Inhibited vs. Uninhibited
-Feminine vs. Masculine

But even then, I feel like those qualities are malleable according to the man she's with. I guess the only accurate types are based on Age, Level of Experience, and General Social/Familial Circumstance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'd say women are too externally reactive to male influence to accurately give a type that holds all that much weight and is accurate across a variety of contexts.

For instance, a girl grows up with a strong father figure--she's a 'quality' girl. But if you marry that same girl and you're a simpering beta--she might easily turn into a 'b****y, cheating slvt' within 8 years.

Or you could take a 'b****y wh0re' who will turn into 10/10 wifey material for the right alpha.

You can hedge your bets, but girls are ultimately shaped by the men in their life and will be a different woman for every man she interacts with and, especially, how old she is and how she can best adapt to her current mating strategy.

That said, there are also qualities that might be more fixed. We'll call them innate.

-Introverted vs. Extroverted
-Shy vs. Talkative
-Socially Adept vs. Socially Awkward
-High Sex Drive/Promiscuity vs. Low Sex Drive/Promiscuity
-Smart vs. Dumb
-Inhibited vs. Uninhibited
-Feminine vs. Masculine

But even then, I feel like those qualities are malleable according to the man she's with. I guess the only accurate types are based on Age, Level of Experience, and General Social/Familial Circumstance.
Well said.
 
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