"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But she can beat Mayweather and men

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you CANT actually see/ dodge decent punches, All you can do, really, is be actively "covering up" and generally moving around. A punch can be delivered far faster than you can detect it and blink your eye, much less move your head/body in time to significantly change what happens.

The smarter thing is to stay out of reach, kick, block kicks, and IF you catch them out/off-balance/bad angle ,etc, THEN close for the strikes/takedown. but just rushing in is extremely dangerous. people hold knives back along their forearms,etc, so what you THINK is a mere "brush" can be your carotid artery being opened wide. If you MUST close with somebody, first evaluate the enviornment/footing, and then precede your moving in with throwing your hat, glasses, pen, change, keys or phone into their face. check this guy's vids for some real eye openers


 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MMA fighting is weird. One second you are on top of the world, less than a year later you are laying on your back with a smashed face. I saw it happen to Tito Ortiz, Chuck Liddell, etc etc etc all the way up to Ronda Rousey. Only guy who hasn't ended up that way is Georges St. Pierre, and that's only because he made the good decision to quit in the middle of his career.
 

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real combat is like that, but you don't get to retire after you lose.
 

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They should bounce her from the sport like they have Ray Rice.
 

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you CANT actually see/ dodge decent punches, All you can do, really, is be actively "covering up" and generally moving around. A punch can be delivered far faster than you can detect it and blink your eye, much less move your head/body in time to significantly change what happens.
All too true. By the time someone throws a punch their mind has already calculated the action, their motor units have already fired and their fist is already travelling. Your mind has a fraction of a second to see the punch, then calculate how to avoid it, then recruit the motor units, and then get out of the way in time - all of that after the other guy has already completed his process and most likely threw several more punches right after the first one.

That's why you will not go a sparring session without hearing "relax" from any good coach. That's why boxers are always moving something - their hands, their torso/head, their feet - because you have to already be in movement to dodge effectively against a competent boxer. If you look at Rousey in this fight you will see she did nothing, not even the simplest things of parrying or blocking, let alone use movement.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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make THEM keep doging/covering up, keep them in fear of your kicks and they won't be firing off much in the way of hand strikes. Most guys strikes, especially their kicks, would not bruize a bananna. if you can't put your hand or foot thru a pair of the (mortise and tenon/tongue/groove) breaking "boards, while they just hang on a string, you aint much.

here's a good set of fingers


good body

 
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why so? athletes are athletes, prowess is prowess, gender is irrelevant and you're ignorant
 
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