Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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you CANT actually see/ dodge decent punches, All you can do, really, is be actively "covering up" and generally moving around. A punch can be delivered far faster than you can detect it and blink your eye, much less move your head/body in time to significantly change what happens.

The smarter thing is to stay out of reach, kick, block kicks, and IF you catch them out/off-balance/bad angle ,etc, THEN close for the strikes/takedown. but just rushing in is extremely dangerous. people hold knives back along their forearms,etc, so what you THINK is a mere "brush" can be your carotid artery being opened wide. If you MUST close with somebody, first evaluate the enviornment/footing, and then precede your moving in with throwing your hat, glasses, pen, change, keys or phone into their face. check this guy's vids for some real eye openers


 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MMA fighting is weird. One second you are on top of the world, less than a year later you are laying on your back with a smashed face. I saw it happen to Tito Ortiz, Chuck Liddell, etc etc etc all the way up to Ronda Rousey. Only guy who hasn't ended up that way is Georges St. Pierre, and that's only because he made the good decision to quit in the middle of his career.
 

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real combat is like that, but you don't get to retire after you lose.
 

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They should bounce her from the sport like they have Ray Rice.
 

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you CANT actually see/ dodge decent punches, All you can do, really, is be actively "covering up" and generally moving around. A punch can be delivered far faster than you can detect it and blink your eye, much less move your head/body in time to significantly change what happens.
All too true. By the time someone throws a punch their mind has already calculated the action, their motor units have already fired and their fist is already travelling. Your mind has a fraction of a second to see the punch, then calculate how to avoid it, then recruit the motor units, and then get out of the way in time - all of that after the other guy has already completed his process and most likely threw several more punches right after the first one.

That's why you will not go a sparring session without hearing "relax" from any good coach. That's why boxers are always moving something - their hands, their torso/head, their feet - because you have to already be in movement to dodge effectively against a competent boxer. If you look at Rousey in this fight you will see she did nothing, not even the simplest things of parrying or blocking, let alone use movement.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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make THEM keep doging/covering up, keep them in fear of your kicks and they won't be firing off much in the way of hand strikes. Most guys strikes, especially their kicks, would not bruize a bananna. if you can't put your hand or foot thru a pair of the (mortise and tenon/tongue/groove) breaking "boards, while they just hang on a string, you aint much.

here's a good set of fingers


good body

 
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why so? athletes are athletes, prowess is prowess, gender is irrelevant and you're ignorant
 
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