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You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Like the title says, my gf is going out for dinner male tutor. This guy seems to be very nice to her ever offer her a discount for classes 6 hours for 90$, and now he wants to go to dinner with her. Should I be worry, or am I paranoid. Usually i'm not like this, I let her go out with male friends when there is a group, but not one on one meeting. What should I do guys.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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think hard about whether you actually trust her or not.

could be a sh!t test but then again its a fvcking disrespectful one regardless. She is going to be doing 1 on 1 tutoring session with a guy that (as far as you can know) she wants to have dinner with.

I would use this as an excuse to end the relationship and get a better woman by letting her go then ending it.
its the guy that ask her out for dinner. She doesnt think anything of it.
 

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Doubtful you have ownership rights on her.

You can tell her you'll dump her if she goes and that's about it.

Her call. You don't say if the tutor is around her age. Discount fees for a woman sounds fishy to me.

Is she playing dumb about this guy? Are you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nm I just read your old threads, she is a ho and you are her beta slave I dont care if you cheat or not, why would you put up with her ho behavior?

The guy is usually the one that asks the girl out, lmao
She is not playing dumb because she not born in canada, so the culture is different. but then again, i know she might not think anything of it, but i know the guy will try to put a move on her. I dont want to sound like an AFC giving her restrictions on what she can or cannot do. Let her experience the canadian culture.
 

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She is not playing dumb because she not born in canada, so the culture is different. but then again, i know she might not think anything of it, but i know the guy will try to put a move on her. I dont want to sound like an AFC giving her restrictions on what she can or cannot do. Let her experience the canadian culture.
Dude noooo. She's not dumb she knows his intentions. You know his intentions. He knows you guys know. Don't allow this crap.
 
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I really hate policing my gf telling her what is not acceptable because she just came to Canada 5 months ago
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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If you know, then she knows. And you have your answer.

Your typing that "she doesn't think anything of it" is, by definition, ridiculous.
Agreed. Dump her man! This is how the nightmares start.
 
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Think about it if I don't allow this crap, next time she wont even tell me. So I was thinking let her go out and experience it, and next time no more going out to dinner with the tutor
 
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Guys that really with dump her, why don't you guys provide some value. Anyone can say, dump her. Please explain the reason behind it, or rather don't post ****.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Think about it if I don't allow this crap, next time she wont even tell me. So I was thinking let her go out and experience it, and next time no more going out to dinner with the tutor
What about the next male friend that wants to go to dinner with her? What if you don't let her in the future? What if mr tutor wants to take her again?
 

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Guys that really with dump her, why don't you guys provide some value. Anyone can say, dump her. Please explain the reason behind it, or rather don't post ****.
Tell her you don't want her to go. If she goes dump her.
 

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Guys that really with dump her, why don't you guys provide some value. Anyone can say, dump her. Please explain the reason behind it, or rather don't post ****.
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I just did. So pretend I didn't and act like she doesn't know that 'the guy will try to put a move on her' even as she tells you that 'she doesn't think anything of it'.

I'm done here.
 
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What about the next male friend that wants to go to dinner with her? What if you don't let her in the future? What if mr tutor wants to take her again?
Just once for MR tutor. Male friends I told her not to go out with them
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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