Getting lucky: girl completely out of my league showing interest?

[icantgetlaid]

You ever work/go to school/take a class/etc. with a girl clearly out of your league that was somehow interested in you?

For example, I'm 5'11, 225 lbs (overweight/pudgy looking) .. introverted .. etc. (working on myself through the advice here) I'm not bad looking but i'd call myself average/below average in the overall rating scale... and i'd call her pretty close to HB8/9 .. she invited me out on halloween but i had plans so asked her out next week and she accepted.

This girl has perfect body ... super charismatic/popular .. works in my department (good job), smart, etc. We work quite a bit together and I've always gotten the feeling that she was flirting when laughing at my jokes, running into me in halls, starting small talk, etc. I don't know if she's just being friendly or finds me attractive. I'm kind of shy, don't talk much, etc. so its not like she doesn't know i'm not some super alpha male with a ton of confidence.

Basically want to know if i have a legitimate shot here .. is she just being friendly .. do some really hot girls just go for averagish looking quiet dudes? etc.

Just looking for some feedback/analysis on this situation.. thanks!

 

[dustmuffin]

Make your move on the date. Go for the kiss. Assume she likes you until rejected. Use kino and read the DJ bible for date tips. Rejection is better than regret. Good luck.

Rember there is no girl out of your league.

 

[icantgetlaid]

yea... i figure im just going to go for it ... and let the chips fall where they may ...

Through the teachings here on this site ... ive been educated that the 'mating game' is basically like economics ... she may be the best looking girl at the company i work at .. certainly the best body (worked out yoga body with big natural titties and big ass/hips) ... if she has legitimate interest/attracted to me ... it goes against the teachings here for sure.

 

[dustmuffin]

yea... i figure im just going to go for it ... and let the chips fall where they may ...

Through the teachings here on this site ... ive been educated that the 'mating game' is basically like economics ... she may be the best looking girl at the company i work at .. certainly the best body (worked out yoga body with big natural titties and big ass/hips) ... if she has legitimate interest/attracted to me ... it goes against the teachings here for sure.

Don't analyze act. She may be ready for a beta provider. She may precieve you as such. It does not mater. Hold her hand...guide her by putting your hand in the middle of her back...kiss her..don't kiss her ass. Action..confidence..leadership.

 

[marmel75]

There are always going to be hot women that view you as attractive regardless of how you look. Women are attracted to guys for lots of different reasons, no need to try and analyze WHY. Go out, make a move, kiss her and try and bang her. Don't make the mistake of thinking you can relax cause you have this in the bag, you don't...her interest could just as quickly dissipate if you start acting like a chump.

 

[El Payaso]

Sorry, bro but you don't stand a chance. You think she's out of your league and are doubting yourself. Your mentality is f*cked up. Read the DJ Bible and stop panicking.

 

[icantgetlaid]

Sorry, bro but you don't stand a chance. You think she's out of your league and are doubting yourself. Your mentality is f*cked up. Read the DJ Bible and stop panicking.

I'm just keeping it 100 ... this girl is a total knock out ... i'm some pudgy quiet nerdy dude ...

I'm here to improve my game ... and I got a long way to go

 

[PeasantPlayer]

For now on if a girl is claimed to be a HB9 provide picture proof

 

[Serenity]

Do you not see you're tearing yourself down? Doing that is a surefire way to miss any chance you got. Just go for it and keep improving along the way.There's nothing to analyze, your mind is just being neurotic, work on calming yourself down. If you don't think you have a chance anyways then does it really hurt trying? I mean if you don't do anything you'll be right about having no chance for sure.

You want her? Then be a man and go get her. Improving your game does involve taking action, chances and trying. Sitting around on this forum won't actually improve your game unless you go out and try even just a few of the things you've learned here.

So no more bullsh!t excuses like "she's out of my league", that's the opposite of improving game.

 

[Tictac]

You stand no chance.

Not because she's not interested but because you have a pathetic attitude.

She's interested in you or at least showing signs that she may be.

Don't sweat it. Once she gets that you are running a pity party for one, she'll be gone.

 

[Bingo-Player]

This girl has perfect body ... super charismatic/popular .. works in my department (good job), smart, etc. We work quite a bit together and I've always gotten the feeling that she was flirting when laughing at my jokes, running into me in halls, starting small talk, etc. I don't know if she's just being friendly or finds me attractive. I'm kind of shy, don't talk much, etc. so its not like she doesn't know i'm not some super alpha male with a ton of confidence.

Basically want to know if i have a legitimate shot here .. is she just being friendly .. do some really hot girls just go for averagish looking quiet dudes? etc.

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under these circumstances generally not

i would say shes genuinely just being freindly

the next time you see her , turn the conversation to a sexual tone show her you are a man who has his needs

if shes happy to continue with the sexual tone shes interested in you

if she moves the subject on quickly you are in the freindzone

 

[icantgetlaid]

realistically she's probably a 6/7 ... (10 body/5-6 face)

and thanks for the feedback, even the critical stuff, definitely need some tough love sometimes.

 

[Yewki]

Sorry, bro but you don't stand a chance. You think she's out of your league and are doubting yourself. Your mentality is f*cked up. Read the DJ Bible and stop panicking.

Sorry to say El Payaso is correct. You pedestalize her, you already lost before you talked to her. Even if you were able to put up an act and seduce her, it won't last. You have a very flawed mindset.

I think you should forget about her and take on other girls who don't get in your head so much. Take it one step at a time, work your way up. I mean, by all means, if you want to give this one a crack go ahead... you're just not ready and probably won't learn much. It's like trying to high jump 8ft when you've only ever done 5ft. I can tell you right now you're not gonna jump 8ft, and will probably just end up frustrated that you couldn't do it.

 

[Maximus Rex]

This girl has perfect body ... super charismatic/popular .. works in my department (good job),

she may be the best looking girl at the company i work at .. certainly the best body (worked out yoga body with big natural titties and big ass/hips) ... if she has legitimate interest/attracted to me ... it goes against the teachings here for sure.

Don't try to holla at your co-workers.

yea... i figure im just going to go for it ... and let the chips fall where they may ...

This attitude can get you with a sexual harassment suit, terminated and/or both.

realistically she's probably a 6/7 ... (10 body/5-6 face)

So the truth comes out, she's actually an average looking chick.

 

[JohnChops]

Sorry, bro but you don't stand a chance. You think she's out of your league and are doubting yourself. Your mentality is f*cked up. Read the DJ Bible and stop panicking.

this right here. come on man, have some damn confidence. You say you';re a fat nerd, well go for a run, eat a salad, and make yourself look and feel better. Also, being a nerd ain't a bad thing. Most women find intelligence sexy.

 

[icantgetlaid]

read the entire thread ... i acknowledged that i need to improve my game .. social skills, weight, etc. I've come a long way in the short time I've found this community ... yes i am a fat nerd .. but an improving one. the inspiration for this topic isn't so much about how fat and nerdy i am, but more rather, people's experience (if any) with a girl who is way out of your league showing interest..

 

[Yewki]

people's experience (if any) with a girl who is way out of your league showing interest..

Spoiler alert: Their experiences are bad. Because they think the girl is better than them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

read the entire thread ... i acknowledged that i need to improve my game .. social skills, weight, etc. I've come a long way in the short time I've found this community ... yes i am a fat nerd .. but an improving one. the inspiration for this topic isn't so much about how fat and nerdy i am, but more rather, people's experience (if any) with a girl who is way out of your league showing interest..

Have it occurred to you she might like someone just like you? Youve talked yourself out of the *****. Yes you can have a better physique and clothes but it wont happen over night. See if you can **** her.

 

[Groverz]

I have seen hb8/9 date only pudgy dudes, some girls like the personality more than the looks.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have seen hb8/9 date only pudgy dudes, some girls like the personality more than the looks.

Ive seen it too. And these guys are real good to their woman its an ego and confidence boost for them vs fighting for space with the hyper prick alpha. These guys arent lying. All you have to make sure is your ****ing her.