"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The ONLY way to control a BPD chic

Alpheta

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2 golden rules one must apply on a BPD chic if he wants her under his control

  • Treat her like complete ****. Lower her already low self esteem
  • Show NO affection
I truly believe thats the only way. Im not advocating it, just making a point.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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HeadLightsOn

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No. The only way to control a BPD is to run. Remove yourself from the situation completely and ignore her.

That is the 'control.' If you stay, anywhere around them, you are feeding them. And they will keep eating until your shrivelled husk blows away in the wind. Amen.
 

Bible_Belt

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"Isn't it sad that we can never be together?"

That's the only frame you need. Keep it, and you will have sex with her as long as you want.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dustmuffin

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I have never been in a relationship with a woman like this. But it seems that the best venue of action would to be leave and never look back. Life is crazy. Why court disaster with a relationship like this?
 
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