Bad Idea?

[dustmuffin]

I was messaging with a hb6 very nice body 33 on okcupid a few weeks ago. I got her number and texted her. She didn't respond. Today I tried again and she did. Turns out she divorced because of domestic violence. Her husband came over and made an ass of himself and the state took her kids. She is now working as a waitress at a strip club. So i chatted with her a bit. Asked for a date she put up resistance. Chatted with her more and let her spill. Anyway told her it was a sad story and that she probably got all the dates she wanted at the club. That if she wanted to meet for coffee and chat let me know. She responded that she didnt date customers and that she was probably free tonight. I set up a date for 6. Text me if she has to work. I am not giving her money or any of that crap. All i want is 33 yo *****. Im 52 been 20 years since i have had any that age. She might be good for a plate. Thoughts and advice pls no white knight crap...I have my eyes on the prize...puzzy

 

[Jetleg]

Hard... first, sounds like she is an attention wh0re, like most internet chicks. You're giving her too much attension and she is used to that already (her workplace...). I would try calling her with a direct approach, but probably a lost case.

 

[gravityeyelids]

If she looks like a HB6 on okcupid, she's likely a fvxking 3 in real life. Unless you're super desperate I'd stay far away. Theres enough red flags here to cover 2 or 3 girls' shortcomings

 

[dustmuffin]

Hard... first, sounds like she is an attention wh0re, like most internet chicks. You're giving her too much attension and she is used to that already (her workplace...). I would try calling her with a direct approach, but probably a lost case.

I got a date with her tonight. Thought I might get some tips on how to proceed with this type of woman. If she flakes I won't try again. Just got a text from another woman that wouldn't respond the last time. I included my pics with the message.

 

[dustmuffin]

If she looks like a HB6 on okcupid, she's likely a fvxking 3 in real life. Unless you're super desperate I'd stay far away. Theres enough red flags here to cover 2 or 3 girls' shortcomings

Very true and point well taken. I am going to meet her for coffee and size her up. Im not desperate but would like some young snatch with a short term time frame. I may regret it. I do have a date tomorrow with woman 45 with a fit body. I am also working on a woman 44 with a fit body. It seems like any woman around my age is a pig.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Very true and point well taken. I am going to meet her for coffee and size her up. Im not desperate but would like some young snatch with a short term time frame. I may regret it. I do have a date tomorrow with woman 45 with a fit body. I am also working on a woman 44 with a fit body. It seems like any woman around my age is a pig.

In all honesty that 44 yr old fit woman could have a much nicer body than the 33 yr old that doesn't take care of herself

 

[dustmuffin]

You are probably ri

In all honesty that 44 yr old fit woman could have a much nicer body than the 33 yr old that doesn't take care of herself[/QUOTE

You are probably right. Going to go just to practice conversation and gaming. I am kind of Leary.

 

[dustmuffin]

She flaked...No big deal it was on the way home.