1 example of lots of texting that ends up working out...long distance woman

[BackInTheGame78]

Met this woman online who lives about 3 and a half hours from me. Noticed she kept checking out my profile, so I messaged her and asked why she kept checking me out being so far away. She said she thought I was sexy and wanted to look, so I told her it was cool and we started chatting. Got her number after a few messages and have been texting her since late August off and on.

She used to text me all the time in the beginning. She withdrew a little a few weeks ago, going several days between texting, and then getting upset because I hadn't texted her. She almost always initiated, I rarely did. She texted me over the weekend and I went full on sexting on her(I had done it a few times before on and off and she loved it), telling her what I would do to her, etc, etc, etc...she was getting so hot and bothered by it, she sent me a video of her fingering herself, and a bunch of pictures...

Then she texts me today that if I don't come and see her soon that she is going to come and see me. The she texts me "I really want u"

Planning on heading down there on a road trip this weekend and railing her brains out for 2 days,lol...

One example of lots of texting that actually helped to build things, but I think it only worked because it wasn't really practical for me to actually see her, so she had no expectation of seeing me, at least not until recently...

 

[skinnyguy]

Most guys including HW wil disagree with you but either way nice work.

What works for some guys won't work for others

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Most guys including HW wil disagree with you but either way nice work.

What works for some guys won't work for others

I disagree most times as well, at least if they are nearby. I think this worked because it built up over time as we were so far away and it has the whole fantasy playing out of someone far away coming to visit and having hot, wild sex and then leaving again...

 

[Skyline]

When a woman finds you physically attractive, and she did since she blatantly admitted you were sexy, you can basically do whatever you want. Text, in person, phone, letter, email, anything it doesn't matter. Texting vs real life is all really preference but just know that you're probably loosing stuff to talk about in person.

Even girls who are head over heels for you have a limit though. Keep that frame in check and realize you might have a flake.

 

[gravityeyelids]

This is going to come off as completely dooshy and egotistical but fvck it. I am the KING of getting online girls interested, turned on, sending nudes and asking to meet up. I do it for fun now that i figured out how relatively easy it was. Idk what site you're on, but i go on Tinder FAR more than i should. (Also on Hot Or Not). I've done this with probably 10-15 girls just in the past few months and dozens of times in general. Im not exaggerating. I can send you pics or screencaps if you really dont believe me. A good portion of the time the nudes they send are super hot. The rest of the time i simply like the sex talk.

It's pathetic, but when i feel bored or lonely i go on there and spreadshot overly sexual messages until i get a bite and then spend my night sexting and trading nudes. In roughly half the cases the girls have begged me to come over. Want to know the problem with this? not only are these girls low quality and ugly as fvck in person...but also the hot girls NEVER meet up.

I'm really not trying to reign on your parade. I'm all for banging random online girls. Im speaking from experience, and in this case i have wayy too much. One of two things are going to happen:

1) She actually does end up following through on the meetup. You waste 3.5 hrs going there to find out she is not only mediocre looking, but also awkward, boring, and terrible at sex.
OR
2) She talks a big game and then goes ghost during the final stages of your planning.

These girls talk a biiiig game. Getting you all turned on. Telling you how much they want you to come fvck them. They'll even arrange logistics. Everything except giving you the address and saying "come over now".

Met this woman online

who lives about 3 and a half hours from me

These are two gigantic red flags.

I had one girl i was talking to on tinder for a couple weeks. Kept saying dirty stuff to me and sending me pics in which she looked really cute. Im not talking 2 or 3. I mean like 10-15 pics. Girls are EXTREMELY good at taking flattering pics. I drove 45 minutes. Got there. Shes basically overweight. Her face isnt that nice. She sweats kind of a lot. I find out she hasn't had sex in like a year. And has only had sex like one or twice. I still banged her. Terrible in bed. Not attractive. Like, losing my boner not attractive. I asked her to get on top and she said she didnt know how to ride on top at all....

A girl just yesterday. Talking to her all day. Dirty stuff right from the get go. She sends me nudes, and she is BANGING. Awesome body, and there's like 4 or 5 of them via snapchat in the same location so i know it's her. Tells me no less than three times that she wants me to come over and fvck her. I couldnt during the day because i was busy. We make tentative plans for that night to come over. Hit her up for the address and she says she's too tired. Go figure.

These girls are a MASSIVE waste of time. Think about it. Any girl that's not physically deformed (and most that are), can walk into a bar, go up to a few guys asking if they wanna fvck. And they will VERY QUICKLY find someone desperate enough to bang them. And a decent looking girl? Forget about it. The average girl has guys CONSTANTLY trying to fvck her. Why would a girl waste hours and hours of her life trying to meetup with a guy like 4 hours away to have sex unless she was unattractive or something was up?

Haha sorry to go off on you like that, but just trying to save you time and energy. If you still wanna...then by all means go ahead. I can't tell ya what to do. Just my opinion on the matter.

 

[MrWood]

for someone that has gone intercontinental, the girl MUST drive/fly to YOU.
at 47 I flew a hot 29yo Chinese school teacher here *while dating a 34yo Russian.
The Russian I had come meet me in Rome.
My last ex, 30yo and Russian flew to see me for first date...

The anticipation is much stronger and all they will do, or can do is fvuk you. If you go to her... you lost all the power. The power of a new place, new guy, abit of fear... literally dripping pvssy juices before you hit it

Make HER drive 3hrs to YOU... check her drivers seat when she gets out..

 

[Yewki]

example of lots of texting that ends up working out...long distance woman

This is just speculation, but like @gravityeyelids was saying I get the feeling if I actually met the girl you're talking to I wouldn't want to touch her with a 10ft pole.