Danger said:
- You started with the PM insults. So besides being a WK, you are also a liar.
- The "If" doesn't change that you reacted emotionally. The emotional part was your falling for an obvious troll masqerading as a girl and further assuming that she went through some kind of hardship, with no evidence whatsoever, just an accusation. You were taken in and fooled, because your WK tendency is flamingly strong.
- WK's get taken in by a crying woman who presents no evidence. Rational people request evidence or it's a bunch of bull$hit. If you were rational, you would not have been apologizing on behalf of all men and linking her situation to rape and other things that poor "princess women are not used to".
- I told you that you were a douche in the past, you are a douche now, and you will always be a douche. I don't recall the exact instances of you being a douche, but I will continue to treat you like the douche you are. Starting an insult PM war is what douche's do. You further prove your douchery.
- There was no "we". There was "you" who was taken in by the damsel cry for help. Typical WK who cannot see past the women crying. That is the epitome of the WK.
- Cry more.
Do you want me to bring out the PM's? I can. In the meantime I will paraphrase.
ME:
WTF is your problem? I don't believe I have ever said a remotely negative or critical word to you.....ever.
YOU:
Yes you have been a douche to me I remember.
ME:
I really don't know what you are talking about. When have we really even conversed? Maybe in a stock thread? Either you have a better memory than I do or you are being way overly sensitive because I have no recollection of anything.
YOU:
I remember douche people, and you were to me a few years ago, I dont forget.
I dont remember what it was about, but im sure it was you.
ME:
A few years ago haha? Are you sure about that? You seriously hold a grudge from a message board post that may or may not have happened from a few years ago?
Awesome way to go through life man.
YOU:
I am sure it was you. You were a douche, are a douche, so I will treat you like one.
That is exactly should live life. You give people what they earn.
From there we went back and forth. So tell me, who started the insults here again? Who is the liar here?
As for everything else you said:
1: I don't think anyone here thought that that girl was a guy. If you were so smart and thought so, why didn't you speak up Smart guy? And actually the IF takes all emotion out of the equation. Think of it as geometry. An IF THEN statement until the equation is proved. I am not rushing to judgement. I said IF, as in I don't know all the facts.
2. You continue with the insults. Even on the public forum. Very mature.
3. Again, as for the WE or YOU. IF you were so smart, why didn't you point out the fact that she was really sage? Why? Because you had no fawking clue.
Now go get your shine box.
IN EDIT I responded here to the post below this because I am out of posts:
Vidrio said:
Cordon it was blatantly obvious that that girl was a troll, and you played the WK role perfectly. You're a white knight, and its not just because of that troll thread. There have been other topics, like the one where that guys wife was hanging out with a guitarist all night, and the one where the guys wife was drunk with some guy and ended up "kissing" (which we all know means ****ing) him., where you have taken the woman's side when all evidence has pointed to the woman being in the wrong. There are numerous other examples I can't think of right now, but the first step is acceptance. Accept that you still have a lot of blue pill tendencies, and move on to try and correct yourself.
Haha ok my young little friend. That was a long thread about a guy who he thought was losing his wife to another man because she was losing IL in him. Mainly due to his lack of focus in keeping the frame of his marriage alive and vibrant.
Here are my comments, please tell me where there is any WKing in any of this? Bear in mind this was a guy who was married for 17 years and who had kids together with his wife and who wanted to save the marriage. And as it turns out, he took some of my advice, and others, and totally turned things around and per his last update, was very happily married again. With his kids. I will cut you some slack because you are 17 and don't know any better, let alone what it means to be married as long as you have been alive. If he had listened to some of you, he would be divorced now and his kids would be without a stable home life. Again, there is a difference between being a WK and doing what is right. Some of you guys come to this site and go wayyyyy to far of an extreme in how you treat women (badly). I am guessing because you perceive yourself as having been treated badly by women all your life...hence why you are here.
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ME
I've stayed out of this thread and tried not to say anything, but I have to say this. So many of you are acting all high and mighty, telling him what he should and should not do, most of that involves divorce/hiding his money/preparing to leave etc. Hello??? This man has been married to this woman for 17 years. 17 years!!!!! Some of you guys freak out over a problem you are having with your gf of 2 months! And you are giving that kind of advice (divorce) to a guy who has shared every day of his life with this woman for the last 17 years?? And they have kids together? Most of us cannot relate to that. Most of us have no clue as to where this guy is coming from. It's very easy to tell this guy that his wife is fvcking the dude, or he should divorce her, but go be in a marriage for that long and than tell him that.
I'm not even saying his wife isn't cheating. Hell she could be. From what I can read of this, she probably isn't, but ya never really know. And I congratulate the OP for starting to remove his head from the sand and stand up for himself. I know that no wife of mine, or gf for that matter, is going to be hanging out with some guy like this guys wife is. Especially a wife with children. But he let it happen and now he is paying for it. But I really think that until we have definitive proof that this guys wife really did cheat, we should come up with some more constructive ways for this guy to deal with this in SAVING THE MARRIAGE rather than all of the ways he should plan for divorce. He obviously still loves her, still wants to be with her, wants to save his family....lets find ways to make it work, instead of destroying it.
PS: I realize some of you have done that (come up with ways to save the marriage).....thank you.
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Originally Posted by heroshima
and dropping hints that I've been talking to other women.
ME
IMO this is not a path you want to go down. This is your wife, the mother of your children, not some wh0re you've been fvcking for the past few months.
What she did was wrong, that doesn't mean you have to do the same.
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Originally Posted by heroshima
I thought that part of upping my value and turning the tables was letting her know that she can be replaced.
I haven't been overt about it just stuff like "This mom at the McDonalds play area was talking about a park near the hospital. Do you know the one she's talking about?"
I'm just realizing that I've been being a "good boy" and not talking to women much at all while she has gone and made a VERY good friend of this single male guitarist.
ME
Ok no problem with that. I do that kind of stuff all the time with my gf. Tease her, tell her how this hot girl was staring at me, how she wants me, or I'll comment on a hot girl i see walking by, all in a teasing manner with a smile. That way they know you are the king, and always ready to search for something new if need be, and that you would be successful. Just dont start playing games out of the blue, saying how this girl or that girl was hitting on you point blank...your wife will read right through that.
BTW these are all things you should have been doing throughout your marriage.
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