Slowhandluke
Master Don Juan
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There will be edge cases. we hear out these edge cases because they are not the normal.Firstly, good riddance to the kind of society where fathers/brothers decide and enforce who the women should marry. Once in a while there's an article in the media about such men (usually Pakistani/Indian) who end up killing the young women because they didn't want to marry the guy chosen for them or they found a boyfriend outside their community ... 'honour killing' they call it. Not many things are more barbaric and grotesque than that, IMO.
Seatbeats have been know to case deaths in car accidents, but nobody sane would say we need to get rid of them. the same thing with aspirin. or swimming pools and kids.
women were happier in the past when they were given less choice and when society enforced monogamy in relationships.
most men are not James bond. men who are cheaters are not considered a catch by the majority of society... even by today's standards. George Clooney ultimately settle down. he was never considered a cheater. same with Sean Connery and Brad Pitt. I think Jennifer Aniston divorced Brad and not the other way arround.Secondly, you're assuming the guy doing the alpha widowing is targeting virgins and lying, deceiving and manipulating them in order to have sex and then discards them. That's indeed highly reproachable. But if the guy is a player, in the image of fictional character James Bond or real life men such as Sean Connery, Brad Pitt, George Clooney etc who has sex with women who have been around the block and there's no deceiving involved, then his reputation is not affected at all ... he's seen as a catch.