Zarky said:
Not sure if at this point that's a good idea.
The one thing you got going for you is that you're treating her differently than most men would. Most men would have blown a load in some part of her body by now. You're treating her as if she's "special" and "a keeper," which might make her feel a little romantic.
I wouldn't go and change up your game plan. I'd just make sure that you get the logistics sorted so that you can bone her next time, or at the very latest the time after that.
Well that's what she made it sound like when she told me she wasn't going to give it up on the first night, so you're probably right.
I'm gonna show you guys the txts she sent after the date so you can give some input on how I should deal with her over the next few days before date #2.
About 30 mins after I get home:
Her: Thanku for a good night
Her: So what you think of me then
Me: Aww aren't you sweet. Glad you had a good time. Well you weren't what I was expecting but I mean that in a good way. Was a nice suirprise
Her: Thankyou you weren't what I was expecting either, ur a really nice guy and I'm glad I met you, I hope you don't think I just meet people just like that, I know I was shy and sorry about that, I love the way you kiss and smile, ur mint, I wish I payed for myself tho coz that's what I normally do, my turn next time ok
Me: you're a bit of a cutie yourself and you kiss good aswell I was impressed. you weren't too shy near the end after a few drinks, thought you wanted to leave at first tho! Ok I'll be nice and let you pay next time if you want. 2 first time experiences in 2 weeks I'm spoiling you aren't I lol
Her: lol yes you are, so how *** u didn't want me to come for coffee then, I know I was at first but I didn't know how to take u, u was bubbley and I was quiet, I wanted to just snog ur face off lol but thought no not on the first night
Her: Oh and here's sum kisses for u xxxxxx
Me: Would have asked u to come back but got to be up early tomorrow and my place is a sh1thole atm lots of decorating going on. You could have snogged my face off I wouldn't have minded! But your shyness is sweet anyway I like that in a girl. So have I been upgraded to kisses now haha. Here u go then x
Her: Aw ur so nice and yep you have lol, right have to go to sleep now and so do u for u got work in the morning, good night xx
Me: Sweet dreams xx
Her: xxxxxx
I'm apprehensive about waiting too long between txting her after she got all moody with me before our date due to me not txting her.
How should I play this to keep showing I'm interested but not txting too much?
Might tell her I've decided on what film we'll be seeing or something today and try keep the convo short...then maybe txt again on wednesday about some bvll**** asking how she's doing and if she's looking forward to friday etc.