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BlueAlpha1
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Don't get me wrong dude, im going out with the boys in NYC. It should be a great night.@BlueAlpha1, I suggest you stop thinking about your birthday, in reference to your ex. Focusing on how special it was, when you were with her, is not a focus that serves you now! You make it sound like because you won't be celebrating it with her, it will never be as good as one of those. Fvck that! Enough already! You make it sound like your birthday belongs to the two of you, or even to her capacity to make it special. It doesn't! It's your birthday! Reclaim your birthday! Reclaim yourself!
She's not the goddess of special birthdays. They can happen without her. Leave her in your past where she belongs. Just because it's your birthday does not mean she is a worthy of your focus again. Knock it off. Quit giving her your attention with your thoughts. She is not in your life. Choose your thoughts to reflect that.
Make your birthday about YOU, more than you ever have! Figure out something to do, to celebrate you, your freedom, and your life moving forward! Do it! Make it more special than it's ever been. Do it for you! Own your birthday (without her)! No excuses!
Shes not going to ruin my bday. But what I'm doing (wondering whether an ex misses you) is about as common as breathing. She left this relationship with all the power. It'll pass the next day, but as you know I've been dreaming about her. I'm cool during the day. In other words I'm not dreaming about her because I think of her, I think of her because I'm dreaming about her