Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
Day 129 and Day 1
Complicated - Please follow...
Day 129 With First ex - Dumped for overgaming, lack of reassurance, being an uncaring @sshole, and not committing. Did not backslide, maintained frame and agreed with breakup.
Immediately started banging and dating her way hotter friend (who I nexted yesterday (Day 1) - BPD) and she hasn't moved on with anyone.
1st ex has just started warming up to me the last 2 weeks after hating my guts for the most part the last 6 months combined with jealous remarks and awkwardness to her friend. But just recently she's come around abit - Very small talk and facebooking and such. Interest still present but I did make a ****y remark at the bar last week that may have made her pump the breaks - I think she may auto-rejecting me because I hurt her before.
Anyway I have been debating briefly apologizing to this girl about treating her like sh*t and basically starving her of validation during the relationship and after she gave me the boot. I was basically a player d!ckhead for the 8 months we were together and she didn't deserve it. I didn't think it would be appropriate to apologize for this while dating her friend so I held back. I cannot afford to have any more a$$hole reputation amongst girls in my social group as I am close to being blacklisted and need to save some face here instead of always being ****y/aloof/indifferent with no f*cks given. Her friend (the one I just nexted) is really upset and once words gets out I am about to be fvcked.
What do you guys think about manning up and admitting a mistake to smooth the waters with the first ex? What is the proper way to reengage a girl that you did bogus before without scaring her off?
There is no way around this - Things have to go well as they are both in my immediate social circle. I would like to bang the first ex again if I so chose so need to keep things framed right.
Complicated - Please follow...
Day 129 With First ex - Dumped for overgaming, lack of reassurance, being an uncaring @sshole, and not committing. Did not backslide, maintained frame and agreed with breakup.
Immediately started banging and dating her way hotter friend (who I nexted yesterday (Day 1) - BPD) and she hasn't moved on with anyone.
1st ex has just started warming up to me the last 2 weeks after hating my guts for the most part the last 6 months combined with jealous remarks and awkwardness to her friend. But just recently she's come around abit - Very small talk and facebooking and such. Interest still present but I did make a ****y remark at the bar last week that may have made her pump the breaks - I think she may auto-rejecting me because I hurt her before.
Anyway I have been debating briefly apologizing to this girl about treating her like sh*t and basically starving her of validation during the relationship and after she gave me the boot. I was basically a player d!ckhead for the 8 months we were together and she didn't deserve it. I didn't think it would be appropriate to apologize for this while dating her friend so I held back. I cannot afford to have any more a$$hole reputation amongst girls in my social group as I am close to being blacklisted and need to save some face here instead of always being ****y/aloof/indifferent with no f*cks given. Her friend (the one I just nexted) is really upset and once words gets out I am about to be fvcked.
What do you guys think about manning up and admitting a mistake to smooth the waters with the first ex? What is the proper way to reengage a girl that you did bogus before without scaring her off?
There is no way around this - Things have to go well as they are both in my immediate social circle. I would like to bang the first ex again if I so chose so need to keep things framed right.