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Nino-Tk

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Damn guys, I tell ya now...Just love the women...In the morning I spotted a group of 5 or 6 girls pointing and smiling at me although I didn't approach because I was with a friend of mine who is a girl...It made me realise that girls actually like me...You too, just open your eyes!
Okay so at break time, Lightey wants us to hit on some girls, as we walk around laughing like crazy and having a good time we don't actually find the girls we would like to talk to.
On the way to our chilling spot, we notice the girls we approached yesterday, so we decide to go talk to them.
So my hommies have some small talk with them and then I interrupted and said "Okay, lets exchange contacts"...A moment of silence..Then they said "no!"...I said okay no stress and lead my hommies out of the group. So while I am rushing to my Physics class room, HB shorty(one of the girls) calls me says"I will give you my numbers, I just didn't want my budz to think I am easy" I reply "Aight cool but not now, I am so late...I will take them after school"...So afterschool, she waits for me at the gate, I say nothing and just hand her my phone, she puts them in and whispers to me" don't give your buddies, they are yours"...I simply smile and say goodbye with my hand on her shoulder.
I have learnt, after today is that it is futile to try and seduce a girl infront of her buds..They have a 'code'..Sheep mentality, anyone?Lol.
When I get home, my best buddy, Sabz, comes to my place and tells me that some girl saw my picture on his phone and she is dying to meet me, and that his gf's friend wants to come to my place tomorrow, all four of us are going to be in my house tomorrow...Damn, so we just bought some snacks and condoms, its going down! So tomorrow, I am meeting my secret admirer and the one that wants to come to my place and get laid like a egg!
I don't know guys, but when you just don't give a **** and you are happy, things happen. My ex(the one I laid in December) wants me back, my female friends are hooking me up with their friends...I guess this what happens when you abundance mentality!
Later!
 

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Awe bro, way to go! :D

First off, chicks are social first, relationships second; hence her caring about what her friends think more than getting with you.

Now lets just hope she's not a granade! :D
 

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Lol yeah Norwegian.
Okay so we bought some more snacks, my hommie and I then drove to these girls school and picked up them up( Made them bunk school)...
Aight so we serve em some snacks and some cool drinks, we watch the movie "Van Wilder Freshman", its such a funny movie hey...In the middle of it, my hommie leads his girl to MY room..What!? Lol.
So I take this girl to my sister's room, we make out strongly! Only to find out she on her periods! What a bummer! Lol but she said they end next week, so we'l see...No hate, no anger, I am as cool as a cucumber right now.
 

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What drama I had today, remember the girls my crew and I approached?
Well can you believe it, two of them apparently ''love'' me. Both are really beautiful! So I kinda had my eye on HB Shy(she is quiet) I thought she didn't like me, turns out she loves me, but when I tell her we should date, she declines because she doesn't wanna hurt her buddy's(HB shorty) feelings. I don't know what to do, I really really like HB shy...guys what do I do?
 

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What drama I had today, remember the girls my crew and I approached?
Well can you believe it, two of them apparently ''love'' me. Both are really beautiful! So I kinda had my eye on HB Shy(she is quiet) I thought she didn't like me, turns out she loves me, but when I tell her we should date, she declines because she doesn't wanna hurt her buddy's(HB shorty) feelings. I don't know what to do, I really really like HB shy...guys what do I do?
 

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Whoa. Congrats man, the chicks are chasing the pimp!


NorwegianDJ said:
First off, chicks are social first, relationships second; hence her caring about what her friends think more than getting with you.
This probably explains why, but hm. She seems interested enough in you though...can you still use her as a phuck buddy?
 

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Okay I got a msg from my ex( the one I laid in december) lets call her HB Butt...she sent an inbox, telling me she loves and all that, I didnt know how to respond but she persuaded me to try it again.
So yeah I am dating her again, I just that this time she is not too needy, she told me she coming to my house on Thursday. Its all good.
The situation with HB Shy is reaching critical level, I have falled for real hard and when I logged into Facebook her status was "I am afraid to let u in, even though you are a good guy"...This girl loves me Dj's, I just got to be patient I guess.
 

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Shy girls.. I don't know how to handle that dude. Patience n persistance I guess. Just don't let the spark disappear.
 

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Thanks NorwegianDJ.
But I think I have messed it all up. I am counting a couple hours before HB Shy finds out that I am dating her friend HB Shorty..Gotdamn me and my desires sometimes!
So since we are not going to school this week, HB Shorty and I chat on Mxit.When she logs in, I ask her "Are you attracted to me"..She replies "Yeah I am..I respond "Why didn't you tell me before?"..She says "I was afraid to tell you, but now I am not and I want us to date"..
I didn't know how to respond So I just said yes...**** I regret it and it's not even 2 hours...I really like HB Shy, But now I dun messed it up!
I hope I will fix it today like now.
Okay so I also told HB Butt that I want us to have an open relationship, she seems all good.
 

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The road that ran past our house was a one-lane rural route. Every morning, after new york escort parents had gone to work, I'd wait for the mail lady to pull up to our box. Some days I would put enough change for a few stamps into a mason jar lid and leave it in the mailbox. I hated bothering new york escorts lady with this transaction, which made her job take longer.
 

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Oh fellow Dj's, my heart throbs with pain right now. HB Shy knows about me and HB Shorty, she pretended to be cool with it, but her face said it all.
I, for some reason really feel love her, she admitted that she still loves me but now we don't have a chance...And you know what really got to me, was her status on facebook ,it read "All guys are just the same, I am glad I didnt fall for that player"..
Sheesh, im embarresed to admit I nearly shed tears, thing is, Why do I love her so much!? I havent even known her for a month!
So yeah I told her I still love her, so she probably gonna tell Shorty...Then I lose em both.
Lesson learned: Dont be greedy when it comes to the ladies, only go for what you TRULLY want..Oh and don't put your heart too soon, if it happens, just remember its nature.
Damn..Damn..Damn!
 

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Don't get too worked up on it bro. You can easily attract new chicks, and I know that for a fact from what you post. Good luck

And you're right about Leodown being retarded.
 

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Thanks Hommie. Okay so today I woke at about 11am, my best buddy,Sabz, calls me to let me know that he is coming to pick up to see some 21 year olds who want to meet up and spend some time with us.
I get up and blast the radio with Usher's music, then take a bath while singing along. I wear some nikey sneakerz, black jeans and a white nike top, he comes to my place and we just chill till 2pm, he calls but the girl's phone is off, we call till 4pm and realize we been flaked on!
He feels abit guilty because he made me cancel my date with HB BUTT. So he offers to drive me to her house, I call her and tell her im coming over.He then drops me off at her gate, I get in and meet her aunt and then play FIFA 10 with her cousins(Really fun dudes!).
She then asks If I am hungry, I say no, she cooks and forces me to eat..I must say, shes a good cook!
While she's washing the dishes, I check the coast, and then hold her waist while rubbing my dik on her butt..Trust me, its one HUGE one, you know how black girls roll. She feels abit uneasy because someone might see us.
I then instruct one her cousins to wash the dishes, as I lead her outside, we kiss as rub that smoot butt, but then one of guy cousins ****blocks me by interrupting us. I sense that I am not gonna achieve nothing with these wolves around and ask her to walk me home...Her damn cousins come with us, like wtf!?
Okay, its all good, oh by the way Dj's...HB shy deleted me on facebook, with a long inbox telling me how much she loves me but cannot bring her self to accept that I am dating her, friend HB shorty.
I didn't even respond, too much work...Till next time bro's!
 

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Okay so I woke up at about 9 today, cleaned the whole house, including my my room.
So I call HB Butt at about at 12
Me: My love are you still coming or what?
Her: Yeah, my love, Im getting dressed as we speak
Me: Okay make it quick, my dad might come anytime soon.
I then relax, she calls at about 12:45, she tells me to fetch her at the corner, As I go to her, I notice some three chicks checking me out..Damn the timing sometimes!
So I get to her, lead her to my house, feeling all good! I switch on the dvd, put some old school jams like Usher's "You got it bad"...Im telling you Dj's good music is an aphrodisiac! So I give her some snacks and a glass of coke, we chow them up.
Then as we were chilling on the couch, I lay my head on her big bust, we kiss then I request us to go to my room. Without even talking, we kiss like hectically, I try to calm myself cause I was getting too excited! I slow things down and for some reason I imagined myself as a Latin Lover, this caused me to massage her sensually all over her body, kissing her neck, nibbling her ears, caressing her breasts.
I feel her body getting warmer and warmer, so instinctively I put my finger down there, I start to lightly rub her V-jay jay...Damn! Now her breathing was getting heavier, so I put my middle finger inside, pushing up and down gently, when I felt her getting wetter, I put two fingers in...
Hommies, all I can is, my back is full of scratches! So she asks If I have condoms, I say yeah, she says she wants to do it.
I kinda look deep into her eyes, asking her if she was sure(to be honest, I didn't want to lay her, was worried about my dad coming)...She kinda changes her mind because she sensed I was abit unsure, nonetheless, I gave her an orgasm with just foreplay!
After that, we had some more snacks then I took her out, walked around, had fun..Touching like lovers and all.
So yeah that was my day, I don't know why but I just didn't feel like laying her anyways..Till next time! Player signing out!
 

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Well the week long holiday has been great but tomorrow it is time to go back to school, I sure cannot wait.
I’m looking to spending more time with Shorty, see how she is like you know, as for Shy…well I’m not going to be mean towards her I am just going to talk to her like I talk to any women I talk to, with love of course. Any way I’ve got a date with Nono next Saturday, she got a boyfriend but she says she wants to experience my seduction.
I was introduced to her by my one of my girl buddies, so it’s not so bad to have girl “friends”. I’m really in love with myself, so I feel I should just enlighten you guys about something’s you probably know about. I’ll point them out any way (I probably have said this before!)

To fully understand this “Make every lady feel loved” philosophy that has caused some girls to call me Niño Nova hahaha!
Anyway it’s really simple, you love women for who they truly are, stop focusing so much on boobs and butts, aim to establish a genuine connection, that place where they share some of their most inner secrets. Talk and be interested in each and every girl, the not-so-attractive ones, the hot ones, the beautiful ones.
This quote by Zan Perrion says it all “A man that loves women is loved by women”. Just be honest and don’t mask your desires to women, be comfortable in your own skin and lose your fear of women, you will be okay.
One thing I also noticed is to ASSUME that women are interested in you and what you have to say, you will be a lot more authentic and is she is not then it’s not a train smash.

When you get this point, some women will try to bring you by labeling you a “Player” or “womanizer”, just ignore them because you know that you always have a girls best interests at heart, don’t even try too justify or defend yourself.

Now go out, switch off the PC and go experience and formulate your own philosophies, stop trying to attain flawless game…it’s a myth! Just relax and have fun with women.
Make every lady feel loved!!!
 

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Oh!..Who the man? Who the man huh? Who the fvckin man!? Haha okay, so today were getting back to school after a week of Holidays.
So I get to school, we wait outside the gate then eventually get it in. In my first period, I greet Shy's cousin, she gives me the look and I am like "wtf", in my mind ofcourse.
After about 5 mins, as I am talking to a close female buddy of mine, Shy's cousin calls me, I get up from my seat and get to hers, the first thing she asked me was "Why are you a player?"...I was abit speechless, had that "deer in headlights" look, but I knew all too well what she was referring to. I just kinda kept quiet you know, took the bashing from her. I then stood up and said nothing, feeling really bad, terrible. As I sat on my seat I asked myself "Is this the reputation I want, a worthless playa?"...
My female buddy next to me saw that I was really really quiet, she comforted me, and told me that I should not let them get me down.
As I get into my second period, another female buddy of mine want me to chill with her, she is Nono's friend by the way, and she kept on going on about how NonO likes talking about me and what not, oh well I have a date with her Saturday, we will see.
Through out the day, there is a girl, also somewhat my buddy...Ever since she found out my english name, whenever she sees me, she basically SCREAMs my name, I greet her everytime, touch her face whatever.
So break time arrives, I relax with my players, then I decide to go see my girl, Shorty(I have given up on Shy), so as I go to their chilling spot, I notice they aren't there.
But as I go back, I see them chilling with some popular guy(He dances good, plus he wears designer labels). I don't wanna AMOG him, so I just relax on a pole and make eye contact with shorty, she notices this, and without me talking she comes over..Lmao yall should've seen the look on his face!
Anyway I take alil walk with her and lead her to the third floor, we relax, talk abit. Then when the bell rang, indicating that break was over, I told her to come closer so I could kiss her...Yeah damn she is a flipping master of kissing! That was one of the finest ever!
As we go downstairs, we meet up with Shy, I just greeted her and went back to class.
Because alot of teachers were absent today, subs classes were held in the hall, so there were no teachers in the hall and it seemed more like a party.No drinks ofcourse. So as I get into the hall, I sit with a group of my female classmates, have fun and just chat..High fives and all.
So after school, as I get off the bus, Im walking home right, then girls from the school around my hood,about 5 of em, I swear one was a 8 and one a 9..The 9 had legs that..Omg! They are like brackets..So damn sexy! They nudge eachother, and finally they greet me and ask how im doing.
I didn't get their names or numbers for that matter, oh well, it must be the haircut I got yesterday, my waves are on point and I got a line up so Im good, also got two lines on my right eye brow, either that or im becoming more and more attractive.
Yeah till next time players!
 

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Dj's im really thinking about leaving this journal, just for this school term to focus on my books.
Just realised today that I love girls too much, So probably for the next 3 months I will be scarce. Got to focus on upcoming exams.
What will I do with the señoritas? Well Il continue to socialise with them, but dates are a no-no. Just going to make them my friends.
I will visit regularly, I wish you all the best guys.
 

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No harm in the occasional date. But that's what I'm doing too. GCSEs are in a week and I haven't really started revising. *gulp*
 

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You don't wanna redo school bro, focus on it :)
Amohield, I think I know just as well as you that you're not planning to study anytime soon. Seriously, go study. Now. Take it as a challenge.
 
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