realsmoothie
Master Don Juan
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For those of you that don't know, I'm a 32 year old guy that only started turning around his sexual life maybe a couple of years ago. I'm maybe 25-50% better than I was at that time. Up until age 30 I'd had sex with two women (one my first girlfriend) and fooled around (petting) with maybe ten others. The last time I banged a girl was five years ago, and it happened once before she got super-clingly and sh*t went nuts so I took off.
I've started seeing this 20 year cutie who is not really dating material due to her immaturity. However, it's pretty much assumed that we're at FB stage. We made out at the bar a couple of times, the second time result in me stumbling off the dance floor with a pretty good boner. On Friday I arranged for us to watch a movie at her place.
We watched the movie, her in my arms, nothing happening, and then when it was over we sorta cuddled and chatted for a bit. I was pretty nervous (as was she), since I knew that I could have her that night and hadn't done that much in a long time.
It took an hour or two but finally we start making out. It very slowly progresses to heavy petting, and after another couple of hours finally she's grinding away at my crotch and then asks if we're going to go all the way. I say damn straight, we retire to her bedroom around 5 a.m..
Once there the clothes come off, I fondle her and finger her and so on for a bit. She starts stroking me off, I get hard again and get even kind of close to cumming... and after a bit I pull away and start to finger her again. I lose my woody and when she goes back after it it's softer than it has been all night.
I'm sitting there like "WTF" to myself. I don't really feel that nervous. I've been fooling around with this girl for six hours and just as I'm about to get it on my wang goes completely unresponsive. She's like "it's pretty late, do you want to try this some other time" and I'm like OK. I'm kinda tired but horny and now pissed off at myself.
I'm trying to figure out what happened. The last time I had intercourse the same thing happened to a point but I got it hard myself and just "stuff and pump"ed it and then it stayed hard.
I can get hard watching porn no problem, and I'm sure she could jerk me off/blow me to an orgasm no problem. But for some reason I'm going soft just at the point I'm getting ready to go.
I wonder if the condom is a problem, being kind of scared of them. But it's definitely clear that there's some kind of mental block going on.
Does anyone have any suggestions? I was really pumped about finally getting laid and getting back on track, this is kind of freaking me out.
NOTE: I'd have put this in the health/fitness thing but it's clearly a mental issue.
I've started seeing this 20 year cutie who is not really dating material due to her immaturity. However, it's pretty much assumed that we're at FB stage. We made out at the bar a couple of times, the second time result in me stumbling off the dance floor with a pretty good boner. On Friday I arranged for us to watch a movie at her place.
We watched the movie, her in my arms, nothing happening, and then when it was over we sorta cuddled and chatted for a bit. I was pretty nervous (as was she), since I knew that I could have her that night and hadn't done that much in a long time.
It took an hour or two but finally we start making out. It very slowly progresses to heavy petting, and after another couple of hours finally she's grinding away at my crotch and then asks if we're going to go all the way. I say damn straight, we retire to her bedroom around 5 a.m..
Once there the clothes come off, I fondle her and finger her and so on for a bit. She starts stroking me off, I get hard again and get even kind of close to cumming... and after a bit I pull away and start to finger her again. I lose my woody and when she goes back after it it's softer than it has been all night.
I'm sitting there like "WTF" to myself. I don't really feel that nervous. I've been fooling around with this girl for six hours and just as I'm about to get it on my wang goes completely unresponsive. She's like "it's pretty late, do you want to try this some other time" and I'm like OK. I'm kinda tired but horny and now pissed off at myself.
I'm trying to figure out what happened. The last time I had intercourse the same thing happened to a point but I got it hard myself and just "stuff and pump"ed it and then it stayed hard.
I can get hard watching porn no problem, and I'm sure she could jerk me off/blow me to an orgasm no problem. But for some reason I'm going soft just at the point I'm getting ready to go.
I wonder if the condom is a problem, being kind of scared of them. But it's definitely clear that there's some kind of mental block going on.
Does anyone have any suggestions? I was really pumped about finally getting laid and getting back on track, this is kind of freaking me out.
NOTE: I'd have put this in the health/fitness thing but it's clearly a mental issue.