Jair213
Master Don Juan
good stuff bro. the glory is yours.robert12 said:
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Haven't FAP for 6+ months.
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TheWingMan
Don Juan
Day 4. I only now realize that 90 days is a long way to go...
Day 84 broke down , April 22- July 15. This was first attempt
July 17- August 1 - 16 day broke down
I was sitting bored dry fapping to porn and I thought I had it under control but I didn't and boom
August 3 starting again - This time when I , if , I watch porn it'll be just to see it as a movie and not dry fapping or anything.
One thing I'm happy about , is that now at least I ain't doing it 3-4 times a week like I used to before I started with this challenge. 84 days, 16 days and
now I'm definitely not going to it at all. Not going to indulge in this kind of self gratification at all. PERIOD. GETTING RID OF THIS HABIT IS THE GOAL
NOT A JUST A 90 DAY CHALLENGE.
July 17- August 1 - 16 day broke down
I was sitting bored dry fapping to porn and I thought I had it under control but I didn't and boomAugust 3 starting again - This time when I , if , I watch porn it'll be just to see it as a movie and not dry fapping or anything.
One thing I'm happy about , is that now at least I ain't doing it 3-4 times a week like I used to before I started with this challenge. 84 days, 16 days and
now I'm definitely not going to it at all. Not going to indulge in this kind of self gratification at all. PERIOD. GETTING RID OF THIS HABIT IS THE GOAL
NOT A JUST A 90 DAY CHALLENGE.
I also realized something today why this happened.
When I watch porn , I am so focused on finding the perfect scene or clip to get off to that I forget that the main purpose is not to watch porn but masturbation, clip after clip, forwarding , then clicking
on another link, window after window.
Well that's how I used to do it, now I realize why this causes problem cuz we want to indulge in the fantasy so much that we forgot the main goal lol.
Like I said above that my GOAL IS TO GET RID OF THIS HABIT once and for all so I won't be watching porn at all but people who want to continue masturbate on an infrequent basis , try doing it
with imagination not with the use of online media, I reckon even magazines would be better than using online.
Good Luck to you all. May we all succeed
When I watch porn , I am so focused on finding the perfect scene or clip to get off to that I forget that the main purpose is not to watch porn but masturbation, clip after clip, forwarding , then clicking
on another link, window after window.
Well that's how I used to do it, now I realize why this causes problem cuz we want to indulge in the fantasy so much that we forgot the main goal lol.
Like I said above that my GOAL IS TO GET RID OF THIS HABIT once and for all so I won't be watching porn at all but people who want to continue masturbate on an infrequent basis , try doing it
with imagination not with the use of online media, I reckon even magazines would be better than using online.
Good Luck to you all. May we all succeed
TheWingMan
Don Juan
Day 5.
****. failure in the middle of day 2. this is low, even for me.it's amazing how I forget all my promises in an instant. I thought for a minute not to write this here, but I got to be honest with myself in order to make it all the way. installed an adult filter, here we go again.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
you could do it man.robert12 said:
watt help me is having a little prayer every now and then at night. I know this might sound corny to some.
I am not a religious crazy fanatic or anything like that but you know watt i mean.
TheWingMan
Don Juan
Okay, so I fapped today but I did not ejaculate. Does this mean I broke the challenge and have to start over?
Jair213
Master Don Juan
you are edging man.TheWingMan said:
u need to stop that too. :trouble:
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Decided to try this after struggles to generate interest and maintain it during sex. Made it to day 8, then caved in. Found myself reminiscing about my ex, (whom I had my worst break up ever with a month ago, she was BPD) and intense anxiety. I went from trying to completely cut her from my life, to thinking about contacting her even after all the horrible things she did.
I felt so much better not fapping, more energy and interest in things. I play multiple sports throughout the week for clubs, and played the best I've played in months. But, the anxiety and reminiscent thoughts I've been getting are too much to deal with. I literally fap just to get them to go away, and bring me back to my senses about how bad my ex was for me.. Will going out and finding more girls to peak my interest remove the anxiety I have for her and let me continue no fap, or is there an underlying problem here.
I felt so much better not fapping, more energy and interest in things. I play multiple sports throughout the week for clubs, and played the best I've played in months. But, the anxiety and reminiscent thoughts I've been getting are too much to deal with. I literally fap just to get them to go away, and bring me back to my senses about how bad my ex was for me.. Will going out and finding more girls to peak my interest remove the anxiety I have for her and let me continue no fap, or is there an underlying problem here.
TheWingMan
Don Juan
Day 6 then, its difficult when I am alone at home I gotta practicaly force myself not to do the deed.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
well since i've started no fap I've noticed alot of things improved my day to day life. I need to get out of the house more for one being inside doing nothing gives me intense anxiety.
Life seems more colorful in some ways things seem more vivid. I have intense mood swings since starting nofap I can go from being extremely happy with the way everything is too extremely depressed/lethargic about my life. Definately something i'm going to learn to have to cope with not sure if this is a side effect of nofap but i feel like it is.
Another thing is I have a need to talk to people/hear human voices see human faces. If i've been in the house for more then 6-7 hours without any human contact in real life whether it be male/female then i get intense feelings of anxiety.
Life seems more colorful in some ways things seem more vivid. I have intense mood swings since starting nofap I can go from being extremely happy with the way everything is too extremely depressed/lethargic about my life. Definately something i'm going to learn to have to cope with not sure if this is a side effect of nofap but i feel like it is.
Another thing is I have a need to talk to people/hear human voices see human faces. If i've been in the house for more then 6-7 hours without any human contact in real life whether it be male/female then i get intense feelings of anxiety.
TheWingMan
Don Juan
Day 7.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
This is like Day 12 for me but yesterday me and my friend were actually approached bye some girls about a year younger then us. We were walking around town past a park when some chicks started calling out on us, I was feeling nervous at first but I ended up saying fvck it and just went up to them.
I didn't really feel any anxiety at all I just felt like I should have said more/talked a bit more. They wouldn't shut the hell up hah.
I didn't really feel any anxiety at all I just felt like I should have said more/talked a bit more. They wouldn't shut the hell up hah.
TheWingMan
Don Juan
Day 8
TheWingMan
Don Juan
Day 9. I feel much more confident in myself which I've been lacking, its as if I can pull any chick I look at.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Zebco96 is right there isn't much of a point of counting the days, I'm counting anyways since it's in the back of my head I'm currently around 16 days.
One thing i've noticed is things that used to make me depressed and feel down don't bother me anymore. My moods are much more stable either I feel pretty neutral or i'm pretty happy. lately I've been just been feeling neutral, my anxiety is pretty much gone I don't worry about social situations or get nervous when approaching girls.
One thing i've noticed is things that used to make me depressed and feel down don't bother me anymore. My moods are much more stable either I feel pretty neutral or i'm pretty happy. lately I've been just been feeling neutral, my anxiety is pretty much gone I don't worry about social situations or get nervous when approaching girls.
