Haven't FAP for 6+ months.

[Redempti0n]

The testosterone is just 1 huge benefit of no fap. (testosterone that does not dampen after 7 days like some here say.)


Anyway , real benefit of giving up porn & fap is unhooking your brain from it's dopamine spike addiction.


If you wanna aware yourselves on the subject , feel free:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

 

[020204]

Yeah I have practised no fap and done the 90 day challenge, it make you feel great and there is something to it. In all honestly it can't be good to suppress one's libido. If you are single and can rub out 3 per day, it means you are healthy.

 

[mv.89]

I'm on day 24 and last night I got a hand job from fwb. It just feels great not to fap and not be bound to something.

The point you guys are missing out on is , the main purpose of quitting this is that to TAKE CONTROL not GIVING IN TO YOUR URGES. Research has produced evidence that sex is good for health but masturbation is lowest level of indulgence and self gratification.

About the CEO's and all not having sex sounds okay but we still are missing the main point which is TAKING CONTROL. Fapping is such a small thing and since everyone does it we think it's the new normal and can't cause damage since everyone is doing it, we forget that however small it maybe we are GIVING IN TO THIS URGE.

Just TAKE CONTROL and you'd be able to strengthen your will power which will work in your favor being a CEO or a JANITOR, strong will-power is the uber quality of a DJ

 

[Jair213]

I think wat really messes you up is the porn.

Back when I was with my girl I use to masterbate and watch porn I did both frequently. at times i couldnt get it up

But once i stopped the porn I was getting better till i had no problem getting it up 100 percent. and the only reason i stopped was because she caught me once watching it LOL.. but yeah after the porn was cut offf i started to find my girl more atractive also i think it was the reason why i was having less trouble getting it up.. btw this was the chick that i lost my virginity too and was first GF... so yeah i think porn is the main problem not masterbating, if you masterbate excessively though it will affect you..

 

[deathray_dj]

Although I'm certain that the benefits of abstinence are exaggerated and unverifiable, I can see why such a challenge would reinvigorate a man psychologically. Also, it probably goes hand in hand with outcome independence. When you've tamed your sexual organ, it does not control your interactions, and as a result you become less needy and more attractive to women.

 

[Fatal Jay]

^
If you can tame your sex drive, and have power over it instead of it having power over you, I truly think that nothing can hold you back, cause your basically crushing your carnal nature beast inner man.

 

[Redempti0n]

Although I'm certain that the benefits of abstinence are exaggerated and unverifiable, I can see why such a challenge would reinvigorate a man psychologically. Also, it probably goes hand in hand with outcome independence. When you've tamed your sexual organ, it does not control your interactions, and as a result you become less needy and more attractive to women.

Abstinence is retarded. Sex is natural , you should have it as often as possible.

Porn isn't. Masturbating to porn isn't as well.

 

[mv.89]

I'm on day 34

I still watch porn (once a week for 10 mins maybe) but I do not masturbate (just to get it hard) , it gets wet but I do not indulge in self gratification process.

Self gratification is the lowest of form that's why when we stop it we gain control which gives a bump to our inner Alpha. That inner Alpha allows us to see where we stand in life or helps us focus.

But I do not understand how it will kill your sex drive ? I mean the drive is still there and now you are more focused in getting it fulfilled through an actual human being , the true way of getting it done.

I think mainstream has glamorized porn and masturbation so it can kill reliance on someone else and also people don't feel guilty doing it. Even after that we still have a "Was that necessary" feeling right after ejaculating. Also there are 5 times more porn pages than normal pages and billions of dollar industry wouldn't run if there wasn't main streaming it.

 

[JoeMarron]

I'm on day 34

I still watch porn (once a week for 10 mins maybe) but I do not masturbate (just to get it hard) , it gets wet but I do not indulge in self gratification process.

Self gratification is the lowest of form that's why when we stop it we gain control which gives a bump to our inner Alpha. That inner Alpha allows us to see where we stand in life or helps us focus.

But I do not understand how it will kill your sex drive ? I mean the drive is still there and now you are more focused in getting it fulfilled through an actual human being , the true way of getting it done.

I think mainstream has glamorized porn and masturbation so it can kill reliance on someone else and also people don't feel guilty doing it. Even after that we still have a "Was that necessary" feeling right after ejaculating. Also there are 5 times more porn pages than normal pages and billions of dollar industry wouldn't run if there wasn't main streaming it.

It's over indulging thats the problem not self gratification. No self gratification equals no pleasure. I'd advise guys who are doing this to atleast masturbate without ejaculating every now and then if they arent getting regular sex. The phrase "use it or lose it" comes to mind...

 

[Ballinshotcallin]

I'm on day 8 .. No porn and no masterbation. Although I have done what ^ said and done it but not release anything. I also heard the same thing .. So far I'm extremely horny all the time, plenty of boners and I'm much more outgoing and flirtatious with most women.

 

[Dom1noe]

Joining in

Joining in, guys. I've been trying this for quite some time. Getting on and off the train. Now with the support of a group challenge I shall do 90 days!
I am not sure when I fapped last time. My guesstimate is day 14. Certainly not less.

 

[mv.89]

I'm on day 48 and going on.

Soon I'll stop tracking it and I am not doing this for 90 day or 120 day challenge. I am just stopping it altogether.

Yeah I think I get your point "JoeMarron" but self gratification through these means is questionable. Why not find women to do it for you instead.

This is all about self control. Masturbating and not releasing is also acceptable.

 

[dutchmaster]

Should I be doing the no fap if I'm horny 24/7 anyway. I can fap then be ready for another go around 30 minutes later. Maybe my test is so high I need to shoot loads out?

 

[mv.89]

Should I be doing the no fap if I'm horny 24/7 anyway. I can fap then be ready for another go around 30 minutes later. Maybe my test is so high I need to shoot loads out?

lol who isn't ?
Everyone should be doing this. It's about being master of your domain.

 

[bcolon]

^
If you can tame your sex drive, and have power over it instead of it having power over you, I truly think that nothing can hold you back, cause your basically crushing your carnal nature beast inner man.

I'm 25 days in and I feel awesome as fvck. But I couldn't agree more with your post. Me taming my sexual drive just gives me even more confidence in myself!

 

[Velor]

Im envying Naruto, after all all he had to do was taming the 9 tails, im on day 20 pretty much and the beast is going to unleash

 

[ashus]

I'm on day 34

I still watch porn (once a week for 10 mins maybe) but I do not masturbate (just to get it hard) , it gets wet but I do not indulge in self gratification process.

23rd hour! but going for the complete break approach with one exception. I agree with keeping the old plumbing ticking over so will do as mv.89 even though it may bring further temptation.

 

[ashus]

I'm on day 34

I still watch porn (once a week for 10 mins maybe) but I do not masturbate (just to get it hard) , it gets wet but I do not indulge in self gratification process.

Self gratification is the lowest of form that's why when we stop it we gain control which gives a bump to our inner Alpha. That inner Alpha allows us to see where we stand in life or helps us focus.

But I do not understand how it will kill your sex drive ? I mean the drive is still there and now you are more focused in getting it fulfilled through an actual human being , the true way of getting it done.

I think mainstream has glamorized porn and masturbation so it can kill reliance on someone else and also people don't feel guilty doing it. Even after that we still have a "Was that necessary" feeling right after ejaculating. Also there are 5 times more porn pages than normal pages and billions of dollar industry wouldn't run if there wasn't main streaming it.

23rd hour! but going for the complete break approach with one exception. I agree with keeping the old plumbing ticking over so will do as mv.89 even though it may bring further temptation.

 

[TheCWord]

Guys, I'm intrigued by this. Thinking of giving it a shot, but - every post on here is about how great guys are feeling, how women seem more attracted to them etc - is anybody actually getting laid?

If you go weeks or months without fapping, aren't you going to last approximately 7 seconds during sex? I can't see how that improves your sex life.

 

[bcolon]

Guys, I'm intrigued by this. Thinking of giving it a shot, but - every post on here is about how great guys are feeling, how women seem more attracted to them etc - is anybody actually getting laid?

If you go weeks or months without fapping, aren't you going to last approximately 7 seconds during sex? I can't see how that improves your sex life.

I think that would be better than having ED (erectile dysfunction) and have a limp cvck when your getting ready to smash and she thinking that its her that's unattractive. Which in reality your brain is so adaptive to the novelty of porn babes that the real thing isn't a turn on anymore.