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It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Haven't FAP for 6+ months.

TheCWord

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bcolon said:
I think that would be better than having ED (erectile dysfunction) and have a limp cvck when your getting ready to smash and she thinking that its her that's unattractive. Which in reality your brain is so adaptive to the novelty of porn babes that the real thing isn't a turn on anymore.
No doubt, nobody wants a girl to think he's a limp ****. But is her thinking you're a premature ejaculator any better?
 

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TheCWord said:
No doubt, nobody wants a girl to think he's a limp ****. But is her thinking you're a premature ejaculator any better?
Dude, there are plenty of different ways to go about lasting longer in the bed. You should know this. Foreplay is one and some others. If I wouldn't even go all our and penetrate right away with the girl. I would foreplay the mess out of her to get her all hot. Then I would deliver.
 

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bcolon said:
Then I would deliver.
For 10 seconds?

Not razzing, I'm just genuinely curious. Yes, foreplay and an orgasm for her pre-penetration goes without saying... but after they *** is when they're BEGGING for you to be inside of her... and I imagine she wants it in there for a few minutes.
 

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TheCWord said:
Guys, I'm intrigued by this. Thinking of giving it a shot, but - every post on here is about how great guys are feeling, how women seem more attracted to them etc - is anybody actually getting laid?

If you go weeks or months without fapping, aren't you going to last approximately 7 seconds during sex? I can't see how that improves your sex life.
I think this is a myth along with virgins only lasting 5 secs. In my experience its been the complete opposite. In any case, if you're really concerned about this just fap without busting. That way you'll build up your stamina and still get the benefits of no fap.
 

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What does no fapping exactly mean? If I masterbate to the point of having semen at the tip of my **** but I don't ejaculate, is that considered fapping?
 

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^ Others might be stricter but no I wouldn't consider that going against the challenge because you didnt ejaculate. You won't suffer any of the supposed negatives of fapping by doing that.
 

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If you fap but don't *** that is called edging. If you are doing that to porn, you are still damaging your brain and wiring it to porn. Not good, and overall not very helpful in the no fap challenge.

I quit fapping last month and it was the best decision of my life. I have a drive to hit on chicks like I've never seen. I can't explain it, but I just take action. It's great. A couple of other things that have helped me is to take Zinc supplements. It has been proven that Zinc boosts your testosterone, due to zinc being not as common in today's diets.

I know this unrelated, but thought some of you guys would get a laugh out of this video. Talks about damage that fapping does to the body. lulz.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QyD_qIchAds
 

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Another thing... buy some Vitalikor, but make sure you get the right batches... If you blow up early you recover quickly and keep going. I don't exactly know what's in that stuff. Gives me a headache but the results are definately worth it.
 

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HedoRick said:
If you fap but don't *** that is called edging. If you are doing that to porn, you are still damaging your brain and wiring it to porn. Not good, and overall not very helpful in the no fap challenge.

I quit fapping last month and it was the best decision of my life. I have a drive to hit on chicks like I've never seen. I can't explain it, but I just take action. It's great. A couple of other things that have helped me is to take Zinc supplements. It has been proven that Zinc boosts your testosterone, due to zinc being not as common in today's diets.

I know this unrelated, but thought some of you guys would get a laugh out of this video. Talks about damage that fapping does to the body. lulz.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QyD_qIchAds


And what if I am not doing it to porn, just using my imagination?
 

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That'd be a whole lot less risky, but your still tempting yourself to break nofap so why do it? Have at it if you want, I personally couldn't do such a thing.:nervous:

mr. kennedy said:
And what if I am not doing it to porn, just using my imagination?
 

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day 8. Got laid with the ex a couple days ago, but still had some unfinished business. I'll tell you it's difficult when you're bored and left in a situation like that. Oh well, we'll see how far I can take this.
 

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I've been doing this for about 5 days now, and sex has been on my mind more often and just anything related to it. For instance I was talking to a female friend on Facebook and she said 'procrastinating' and i read it as 'procreating'. My mood has been somewhat better, I've had an urgency to just get out of the house, sitting inside gives me mad anxiety when i'm bored ****less. I've also been wittier/confident it's easier for me to hold eye contact with anyone. I feel good so far let's see how long i can last.
 

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Day 84 broke down , April 22- July 15.

I was doing what I usually did , just watch porn to get it hard and I was a bit tipsy cuz it was a hot day and I have been drinking beer lol I don't know dafaq happened and all of a sudden it happened in my shorts.

OH well new beginnings I guess. I'd say one thing though watching porn and not masturbating has strengthened my will power even more.

Now starting again July 17 would be day 1
 

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Well I haven't masturbated, orgasmed or watched porn the past few days. I'm looking to August being a full month without it.

Let's go!
 

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April 22- July 15 (84 days) and now July 17 - ongoing 13 days , this time it is soooo much easier not to do it , I mean once I broke down the routine and cycle it's just way too easy now. I ain't even watching porn no more.

I think this is what we have to learn "Breaking out of our comfort zone, fapping is comfort and not doing it is out of the zone"

Same thing is with picking chicks "Talking/Hitting/Approaching needs to be in our comfort zone and how do we get there ? by adapting it as a habit and lifestyle. Have No Fear of Rejection

My 2 cents :D
 

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Make this a life long goal to never fap. The world will never inform you that fapping damage your body. It create hair loss, increase aging, produces fatigue, it creates erectile dysfunction, decreases your body to fight off germs that will get you sick etc.

The wonderful thing about all this is if you stop fapping, all these things can be reversed, even erectile dysfunction.
 

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After reading this thread I've decided to do the no fapping for 90 days challenge starting today. I feel I have the endurance to last but truth be told the longest I went without wanking was 5 weeks.
 

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signed up for this, been trying to no fap for some time, but keep failing. I realized today that i'm addicted to porn, and that got to stop. so i'll post here every day my progress. not gonna watch porn, no 'dry fap', or whetever. from now on i'll only do the real thing.
 
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