Haven't FAP for 6+ months.

[Jair213]

old skoolr: I come from an addiction of porn and excessive masturbation since I was 13.. Coming off it has made me feel diferent. Very diferent from watt your trying to state. Yes excessive can be detrimental if you do it in excess 10+ times a week every day for over 10 years with an addiction to porn. My case wasn't that severe though. I went at it again a week ago. I masterbated 5 times in 1 day and twice 3 days before that and didn't feel tired or any of the symptoms I was experiencing before witch was shocking to me. I felt the same. It seemed like my body didn't get affected by it. I did watch porn again a bit when I fapped again. Witch was really disappointing. Oh well. I didn't feel that bad about it though. This time no more porn, never ever again no matter watt and this time absolutely no masterbating or any other kind of sexual stimulation unless is fvcking a girl, I notice that with this mentality my game, and being sexual was on a whole new level.

As for sex while I was no fapping. Yes I lasted longer. Before even getting it on with the girl I already had a hard on. I felt more on fire. I made this chick tap out not once but 3 times.

I broke the no fap 3 days after having seks with this chick. Oh well. Its all good.

I know I could do it now with no problem. I could control my urges of no fapping and watching porn as there is no need for none of that when there is woman in existent. I realized that with this mentality I have become stronger mentaly, its like all this time of no fapping I have condition my self and my mind, and thoughts to be more discipline and have become stronger mentally. Not just in this area but in other areas in my life. I know it sounds crazy but having this control over your self without suffering with urges and beating your self about it without getting frustrated and just developing this strong will of power will change you in many ways.

So after breaking my no fap streak I had no problem stopping again, and haven't done it. Remember guys. Do not watch porn. When I watched it again I did enjoy it. But after I felt like a freaken looser like wtf was the point of watching that crraap?? For a moment I felt detach with my self witch made me feel a bit depress but after I felt better cuz i knew now that i had the will of power to not watch porn never again. also after masterbating I felt releaved but really empty inside after doing it. I felt as if I failed as a man in a way that I should have had hit up that same chick again to fvck instead of pleasuring my self like a freaken looser, or tried gaming another plate to get laid. seriously this was the first time in my life that it actually struck me on being trapped in this cycle of porn and fapping for so many years.. so much energy and time lost. I felt really angry with my self, disappointment and such.

Words to live by now. I either get some or I aint getting it any other way.

 

[1-800-HellNo]

I seriously can't believe how effective it's been.

Girls approach me every time i'm out now. I really wanna know if there is some science or research to verify why this happens, because it's pretty ****ing crazy.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Quit fapping for a week now, in the beginning (thought) I noticed an increase in everything but now notice jack shyte Libido is the same. Its all probably placebo.

Anyway still gonna do 30 days to prove to myself Im disciplined.

 

[captain A]

It works. I did 30 days a while back and was really amazed at the results. More social, quicker wit, more energy. Sadly, I fell back into habit. I found that week 2 and 3 are easier than week 1 but it's week 4 that'll really hit hard ya hard.
After reading this thread I've decided to go for it again. Day 2 today.

 

[Jair213]

It works. I did 30 days a while back and was really amazed at the results. More social, quicker wit, more energy. Sadly, I fell back into habit. I found that week 2 and 3 are easier than week 1 but it's week 4 that'll really hit hard ya hard.
After reading this thread I've decided to go for it again. Day 2 today.

nice bro and this aim to get laid no fapping:trouble:

 

[Fatal Jay]

some people libido will plummet, but it doesn't happen to everyone.

 

[020204]

It is all about not being a slave to your **** and women notise that. I am not too worried about going much beyond a week to a month or two, that is how I have been using no fap. You do tend to flatline from time to time, although your overall sense of well being doesn't start to kick until at least a week.

 

[Velor]

yeah

Im going to do this, my goal is 90 days-
I remember a friend of mine always told me that avoiding masturbation would increase Testosterone

Surfing the web scientific studies proof that a constant abstinence from jerking off raise T levels on a constant pattern, even tho after the act your T levels will slightly increase, it will be just for a short time because the body is resettling itself

What Jair and Fatal Jay said totally makes sense to me, when we expell Zinc we give out one of the most important bricks of our testosterone. That said, the choice seems simple

Being myself a Pook Adept i wont wait to do my T-Break and enter the Alpha state of mind

 

[Fatal Jay]

also this is unspoken of, but too much porn causes erectile dysfunction , when your ready to have sex with a real women, your brain doesn't know how to respond to that so you wont get a hard on. Most men don't know this, but it is a proven fact that porn is destructive to the brain and body.

You can cure that ed by doing three simple things. Stop masterbating, stop watching porn, and believe it or not working out/weight loss cures ed also.

 

[Colossus]

I'm joining the no fap challenge. Day 5. I typically only do it 2-3 x per week, but I more want to rid myself of porn than anything else, and the two go hand in hand.

 

[ItsAllAboutMe]

I agree with Jay lately i been getting a hard on faster during a jack off sesh than with a girl. so bad..

 

[Fatal Jay]

^
Stop that $hit bro, you think your ancestors was in their huts jacking off? When they felt like f*cking they took their woman and got busy with her. Erectile dysfunction was unheard of back then.

Porn is unnatural, and masturbation is unnatural.

 

[Marker]

Do you guys ever feel that not ejaculating can have negative effects?

I went two weeks without ejaculating in any sense. I would often go to bed with an erection and wake up with one. Then one night it was all limp and **** and it kind of scared me. I didn't know what to make of that, I felt pretty impotent. I wasn't having sex or anything, just sitting there by myself.

The one thing I will agree with 100% is stop watching porn. If I flog the dolphin I never use porn anymore and I think that helps.

 

[expos]

Count me in. I think it's been 4 days without masturbation. I'm single and no real prospects...so it's going to be tough. When you are 30+ and every chick seems to be taken, it's a little depressing.

I think the best I've done is maybe two weeks. Maybe like a previous poster I'll notice some changes from a health and social perspective.

So October 10th? This could get bad. lol.

 

[Colossus]

Day 16.

It does get easier. I am more productive. I feel more in control of myself and my time. My motivation is up. I need less sleep. I am in general more confident. My written goal is for 30 days, then I'll go from there.

I think it's different for every guy. Some may need no fap for 30 days, 90 days, or 6 months.

I do know that porn is not healthy in any quantity. Expunge it from your life and your mental circuitry, and start by breaking the porn-fap connection.

 

[Neon Owl]

What about jerking without porn? Some mornings I'll wake up thinking of girls I've been with and imagine fvcking them and can easily jerk off just from the memories of having sex with them with my eyes closed.
Is that ok or is that a no-no?

 

[Marker]

I personally think it's best to jerk it as little as possible. If you play with yourself every time you get an erection or start thinking sexual thoughts you probably won't have much sex drive, or at least I wouldn't.

I haven't really watched porn in about a month, and I really think not watching porn is [in the end] more important than not masturbating. I have to say after a couple weeks without porn I feel like I am more in tune with myself and the women around me. I enjoy watching women walk a lot more, I have a lot more sexual thoughts, more frequent erections, and I swear I pick up on the way women smell more often now.

All of this was there before and it may be a placebo but I truly feel like porn may have been dampening all of these things.

 

[The_DukeDEvlin]

I used to be very anti-no-fap, but this last week I started it just because I wanted to try it to see what all the fuss is about. I wouldn't consider myself addicted to porn or fap, but after 6 days I do feel my general horniness level has risen. It's likely a placebo, and I think one reason it works so well is because society has anchored all these negative feelings to masturbation, which I think is bull**** but whatever.

 

[mv.89]

I'd like to try this out too but I'd say one thing, that porn does indeed damage your sense of reality.

2 years back in Summer, I got a girl after a 1 year before that I was just fapping to porn. The first time I tried to do it with her , I was expecting her to be a pornstar and seeing her not so perfect body and not so perfect moves I did not get a proper hard on. I was like Dafaq , good thing was that she was understanding and I got her real good next time, knocked her brains out.

Other thing is that, I do it almost every friday or saturday 2 times each day. If I try to go a whole week I get exceptionally vivid dreams and in shower if I touch my divk , it's on then.

Let's see how far I can go. The only thing is that I have started kickboxing and any kind of workout pushes sex drive to new heights.

April 22, 2013 -Day 1

 

[expos]

Day 9. Made out with a girl last night...got a little hard.

I'm not noticing any real changes yet.