^^^^
no it's not. me on the sofa with manhood at full glory and her on her knees blowing me, me grabbing her hair a little bit, sucking nvts, etc...i think you see the vibe.
this is a very submissive gesture on HER part, and very dominant on MY part. we both know at that point who is dominant and who is not. that's why she's there doing that in the first place.
as far as just a bj and nothing more after that point, you should have already known that beforehand as well.
yes, if you've dated (fvcked, not "dated") more than 100 women, you have pretty much seen it all. yes indeed, most women definitely want to see what you're packing before she spreads her legs, esp if it's got LTR possibilities. actual sex (e.g. "making love"), she knows that she might get hooked on you emotionally, spiritually, etc. she definitely does not want to get attached to some dude with a 4 incher, or a 6 incher pencil dikk.
and yep, i've been with many women who've said their last BF was only "thiiiiiis big"...thumb and index finger very close to each other. i talked with one chick who said that when he entered her, she actually asked "is it in yet"? i feel very, very, very sorry for that dude. this chick said she would have really gone for him otherwise, but the "is it in yet" thingy totally killed the deal.
pretty funny, but size does matter. not that you have to be huge. above average and they'll come back. average, and you're okay so long as everything else is okay. smaller than average, you're probably okay. tiny little weenie, i think you're toast for the most part.
ugly weenie, regardless of size. you're toast too. i've heard it many times before..."he had a weird dikk", "ewe gross", etc etc etc.