Thanks for the feedback and warm reception yall. Big shout to Don Ronny for holdin it down, your replies were dead on. However, it seems that some questions remain...
Originally posted by 2xp
... if i sum up everythin, girls have nothing in their head and just wait for a guy to take their hand.
LOL! Not quite. Girls have plenty going on in their heads..thing is, they tend to act on their EMOTIONS which are often at complete odds with their minds. This is the problem with your average joe´s approach, he tries to engage her LOGICAL MIND when he should be stimulating her emotions by leading her. If you have ever taken dance classes, you would understand just how powerful leading is. I have seen the coldest, feminazi b!tches turn to putty on the dancefloor..why? Because women get turned on when they relinquish control.
Originally posted by 2xp
... note : what's the beauty of having a girlfriend if u treat people like dogs
Basically you have a choice. You can either lead a woman or have her call the shots. There is no middle ground. Sure you can compromise and make decisions together, but there are always roles of dominance at play behind the scenes. Somebody has to wear the pants in the relationship!
Which would you rather have...
1 . A girlfriend who complains and nags you for spending time with your friends.
2 . A girlfriend who will bring you and your pals some beers as you watch the game/play cards/etc.
One of these women knows her proper role. I am not saying she should be your slave, but she should be submitting to you in exchange for the feelings of love and security that you offer her. Trust me, chicks get off on a man who makes them feel safe and needed at the same time. Of course you reward her for her good deeds, this aint about being selfish, its about being the MAN.
Originally posted by 2xp
... i mean i view all of this like both sides bringing something in the relationship, not just a caveman thinking alone that the whole world is interested in him.
You completely missed the point. Cavemen dont think anything at all, they just respond to their manly instincts. Women will not get turned on if you negotiate your desires, you must ACT on them!
If you have any doubts, check out the response from one of the few respectable female posters here.
Originally posted by WaterTiger
I think this should be required reading for every man on the planet! Can we get this put into High School text books?
Well done Mr.Fingers!
Cheers WaterTiger! You actually read my mind with this post of yours. Check it out...
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=55795
Duke,
Where you been playboy? You never answered my email. My feelings are hurt!
Xomel,
You guessed correctly
Jizamurai,
My cousin lives in Richmond and has an uncanny fascination with samurais....uh...Jay? is that you