Its funny to hear girls complain about all their loser ex boyfriends who could never make up their damn minds about anything. Being so indecisive is a feminine trait so it is little wonder that these chicks find it repulsive. Their frustration has taught me a valuable lesson... The single sexiest thing you can do with a woman is LEAD her. It is up to you to take charge! LEAD with your words. Probe her soul and learn to ask the right questions. Avoid technical crap like where she lives, works, etc. Find out her passions, her most embarrassing moments, the craziest thing she ever did. Remember.. you are screening this girl to see if she is cool enough for you! Let her ask you questions but leave them half unanswered so she is always left wanting more. Dont TRY to be mysterious, learn to BECOME a mystery! LEAD with your body. Want her to feel relaxed in your presence? Then try relaxing yourself. Lean back and chill out and she will follow suit. Dont ever try to mirror her..that sh!t is for punks. Instead make HER mirror YOU! LEAD her physically. Once you are vibing and she is comfy with ya, take her hand and and pull her into an isolated place or try a change of venue. This is a great way to distort time and make it feel like you have known each other longer...ever had one of those days where you went to a dozen different places and when you went to bed, that day felt more like a week? Same principle. Now that you have her in a semi private place, lead her into your own little world, a place where you can whisper secrets in her ear and enjoy the scent of her neck. This is where you can start to get more sensual and... LEAD her imagination... Find out what turns her on and use it to your advantage. I have been studying females for a long time and one of my favorite things to study are their fantasies. You would be surprised how many of them dream about being totally violated, raped and yes, gangbanged! This is because women get off on submission, it is their nature to be penetrated physically, emotionally and spiritually. Instinctively, they can sense if you are the man for the job, usually right from the start. If they detect this submissive nature in you, then you will get tossed into the "Cute Friend Who Inflates My Ego" pile. But if you project the opposite vibe and "sweep her off her feet" then you have a better chance of ending up in the "Guy Who Bangs Me Senseless" Pile. Thing is, even after they have decided they want you, they STILL wont make the first move. They are still waiting for you to show dominance and simply TAKE what you want. This is when you need to forget all seduction techniques and simply go caveman on her and let nature take its course! Think about it...better yet, ACT on it. FINGZ DISCLAIMER: Be aggressive but dont be a criminal. No still means no. You can change her "no" to a "yes" with tender lovin, but never brute force! Be the caveman with class.