The definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result.Does anyone else just ever get tired of having to start over and getting to know a girl and sift through her red flags, her history, her family, her friends and her orbiters ? Just going through all that bull**** again is exhausting to think about.
The benefit of having a long-term relationship is building a bond and a friendship through that loving relationship and it is hard to let it go, however it is much more difficult to start a new with somebody else who will probably just disappoint you with her red flags and will end the connection early on.
I say if you were in your 20s find a girl who is just out of college yet to be divorced or have kids and have all that damage. However if you're in your late 30s then you're pretty much ****ed because any choice you have is a woman that's probably divorced with kids and a ****ty ex-husband u have to deal with. However if you can pull a girl in her late 20s Who is not damaged then congratulations. I am a week from 39 and dated a girl 26 to almost 30 with a kid , divorced and damaged beyond belief,( NPD princess syndrome). So any chance you have is a single girl with no kids mid to late 20s. That is the unicorn good luck
me, I got a German Shepherd instead.
Maybe in this case expecting the same result in a pseudo ground hog day kind of way.
Perhaps you're screening for the next LTR instead of the next ONS. Perhaps you're looking for the new future Mrs exhausted.
One should never start over when they have opportunity to begin a new.
We shop for new fishing poles to catch bigger fish, new books to absorb new knowledge, new tools to complete bigger projects, yet we believe nothing new exists when it comes to personal relations.
When we expect the same outcome, we create the same outcome.