Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Women don't want a man to cheat, but the love a man who could cheat.
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I would agree with that.samspade said:Like a lot of rules of game and seduction, one should adjust and temper behavior depending on the stage of the relationship and the person's disposition.
Flirting in front of "your" woman in the early stages is great game and works wonders.
I would agree with that.samspade said:In a marriage or LTR, there's a certain measure of respect you should afford your mate. If your frame is sound, it's implicit that you as a man can have your pick of any number of ladies, but chose her. She knows this, and enjoys it; there is no need to flaunt it in an egregious fashion. Each couple of course has their own comfort level and idea of what's harmless and what's acceptable.
Good suggestion.samspade said:Maybe if we substituted "flirt" with "charm," it wouldn't seem so egregious or questionable. One should always be charming....
This tracks to the ol' Prince Charming theory--women LOVE being selected over other women, so it's required he have options to be selected over them.Rollo Tomassi said:Women don't want a man to cheat, but the love a man who could cheat.
Very true but...azanon said:IMO, that's not a bad thing. I would venture to say that one of the worst things you could do in a marriage is to go out of your way to reassure your spouse that you would never cheat.
Thank you.iqqi said:I must say, +1 for 5string here. I find his behavior to be mature and real "dhv", not contrived "dhv" that involves disrespect to his own morals and values, let alone his wife.
A great example of a natural's mindset.