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    How should I play this?

    Recently it's come to light that my gf of 14 months is still texting her ex. I don't know for sure that he is her ex because she never mentioned his name. All she told me is he is 24 and has a baby and I've looked on her facebook to check him out and sure enough the one she's texting looks about...
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    "You never get excited about anything"

    My gf of a year and a bit has said this to me a couple of times now and I have no clue what she means...I openly admit I'm a very laid back type of person and I actually think it's one of my best traits but she sees it as a negative apparently. She told me the other night I'm so laid back and...
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    Sacrificing a fvck buddy for keeping it real?

    Been txting 2 girls I met off pof recently and already laid both of them. The first one ended up flaking me out a while ago and out of the blue contacted me again yesterday. We talked a bit then suggested we get together this weekend to which she agreed...then I sent a cheeky txt saying she...
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    hb9 off pof not replying after f-close

    Slept with this lass I met on pof friday night after going into town for a few hours. She's easily the best looking girl I've had so far...gorgeous slim body with big boobs. Anyway we got on great the whole night before going back to her place. Ended up having sex for probably close to an hour...
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    No sh1t tests from younger girl. Common?

    After having a 42 yr old gf for 7 months and fvcking a couple other older women I got used to the sh1t tests being thrown at me. Met this 24 yr old girl and slept with her the other night and as far as I'm aware she didn't throw a single one at me the whole night. Is this common with younger...
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    Help me reel this hb9 in QUICK!!

    Got this hb9's number off POF today and am talking to her on the chat app on my phone. She's been sending me naked pics and telling me she likes sucking feet etc. lol Asked her what she's doing this saturday and she said she thinks she's out. So I told her to come out with me instead and she...
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    Tips/advice for POF date tomorrow

    Started msging this hb7 milf on POF this morning, got her number and arranged a meeting for tomorrow. She told me by txt that she hopes I'm not expecting sex on the first date as she's not like that. I just said I don't expect anything from her and said let's just see how things go. Though...
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    Old **** test...how would you have responded?

    Just been thinking about something my last gf said and wondered how you guys would have responded. Was texting with her late one night and she was saying how she was getting all horny telling me how she could';t wait for me to come over the next day and I said 'Why don't you get your toy out...
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    Finding it hard to connect with new girls

    No matter how gorgeous/sexy a girl is I just can't get myself to get excited about them. The whole flirting game is more of a chore than something I actually enjoy but I do it as I know it's necessary to lead to sex. I'm on 4 weeks of NC with my ex and while it is getting easier week by week...
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    How often does a good one come around

    Been realising lately that although I have plates none of them are actually really my 'type' if you know what i mean. They're hot enough to fvck and spend time with but I'm mostly talking about personality type but looks come into it too. I love women who are very feminine in the way they talk...
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    Having more plates than male friends

    I don't have many male friends as it is and due to issues with owing him money my best mate doesn't want to know anymore until I pay him back so for the past few weeks the only social life I've had has been meeting girls and staying over with them. This is a massive change to how I used to be...
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    Sick of torturing myself. Time to end game.

    Broke up with my ex about 3 months ago (I broke up with her) and since then we've been seeing eachother as fvckbuddies. It was me that pushed to keep seeing her again as I thought I could handle my emotions and just keep her around for sex. So far I've stayed at her apartment twice and every...
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    FR with a hb6.5 last night - sh1t test madness!

    Met a 41 yr old milf from a dating site last night for the first time. Said I'd meet her for a drink first then a meal after at a local curry house. She turned up and as I expected wasn't as hot as her pics but I'm only looking for sex atm so I thought I'd play along and see how it went. We...
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    Mistake to have ex as fb?

    Split up with my gf nearly 3 months ago now and so far have seen her twice and stayed at hers both times. I thought I could handle this situation as atm I'm not getting sex from any other girl so I thought it's better than nothing while I find someone else...problem is I'm finding it hard to let...
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    How to make ex want me (increase my value)

    Am going round to hers this weekend for the night (she's now my fb) and would like tips on how to increase her desire for me. I'm already planning on giving her the fvcking of her life and being more dominant in bed (she loves this) but would like other tips on how to make her wish she still had...
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    How to get back to her place?

    Meeting a lass from POF tomorrow night for a drink but for various reasons can't invite her back to my place if things go well. I'm pretty sure she'll be driving to meet me and she only lives a couple miles away from where we're meeting. I was wondering if you fellas have any ideas how I can...
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    Girl changes plans for 1st date...what to do?

    Supposed to be meeting this hb7-8 this weekend for the first time (from POF). I suggested meeting half way and going for a few drinks and maybe a meal if we hit it off and she agrees. Then I get a txt today saying she's sorry but she's 'double booked' herself this saturday and asks if we can...
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    HELP NEEDED QUICK!!! How to reply to this txt?

    My ex who I'm trying to turn into a fb but has been playing hard to get just txtd me: her "hi you ok? x" me "yea just having a few drinks my mate's just come over for a bit. You ok? x" her "yea feeling better than I have last few days thanks. You got a date over? haha x" How do I respond...
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    How to turn ex into fb?

    So I should be going to my ex's house next week, it'll be the first time we've seen eachother since the split. We'll likely be having a few drinks and ordering some food in. I haven't mentioned anything about wanting to get back together but she keeps making it clear that she wants to be...
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    Neon Owl's NC BPD Diary

    So i slipped up again. My ex bpd girlfriend txtd me for the second week in a row since I broke up with her and I replied...I know I shouldn't have but I just wanted to see her even though I knew we would never be exclusive again. Last week she txtd me saying "I'm missing you x" a week after the...
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