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Are you SURE that you run your own business.... It can't possibly be a retail operation.....or a construction gig...

I have a very strange story about how extreme youthful appearance can be; A friend of mine looks and acts like he's in his early 20's. No joke! He could easily pass for an 18 year old if he wanted to. I'm skeptical and he could have fooled me. I told him he was full of BS when he told me that...

Zen for the DJ; An assertion is Zen only when it is itself an act and does not refer to anything asserted in it. It's not this or that, it's this and that.

I don't think you have much to worry about if you maintain your appearance and good attitude about life. I'm 37 and have put a lot of effort into maintaining these two aspects of myself - and it's paid off. I once read that women mature in their late 20's and men mature in their late 30's. A...

I agree with Deepblue 100%. The deleting of various posts is way out of line. I've noticed some very interesting subjects disappear for no apparant reason. Not liking the content of a post is not sufficient reason to get rid of it, especially if there's nothing derogatory stated in it.

It's not healthy to look upon everything as life or death. Most things you encounter in life (including women) are NOT a life or death struggle. We do ourselves a lot of damage by doing so. It's important to realize that most things have a learning curve and a set of averages. I always keep in...

Man, I don't know how I missed this thread the first time around. This is GREAT stuff! It's this sort of thing that makes visiting this site worthwhile. BUMP.

There are a lot of stories about self doubt or not entertaining possibilities on this thread. I'd like to add one of my own to the mix; I met a stripper through a mutual friend. I always thought that these type of women went for unsavory or bad boy types so I never even considered the...

I'll answer this; It's because you always think that you could be a little bit better than you are now. Unfortunately, you overlook (or doubt) how good you already are. My game has declined since coming here as well, mostly because of poor application. Man, but there sure is a lot of ideas...

I think you're on to something here. I've tried to apply some of the techniques outlined here but they seemed stiff and fake when applied in real time. Still, there are a lot of interesting ideas here but they do take time to implement into your own style of doing things. I do have one...

Great posts. Casanova's points are probably the most realistic/probable. In spite of everything, I still think that the man with the highest intelligence and the best heart wins in the end. It's based on what I've actually seen. Interested in human behavior and relationships during high stress...

It's great to have pen and paper handy but there is something additional that will impress your desired target; a memory system. I never write numbers down but I always remember them. I've had jobs where you only get a short period of time to memorize things so we were taught a mnemonics based...

Great post TND! I really like the nuts-and-bolts posts! They can be practiced in the real world. You're right about staring (or glaring) straight on at a women; it does make you look like a psycho. Real interaction has a bit of eye wandering. I've conditioned myself to the point that I look...

I'll verify what Pedro has said. I make great money but I work 14-18 hours a day, six days a week. Most women can't stand it even though they initially find me attractive. I would call myself undateable by Anti-Dump's rules. There's just no time. Money and ambition are great, but there is such...

Very interesting post. However, I think a lot of your conclusions are overly simplistic (no insult intended). What you are engaging in is called context switching; the assumption that psychology or skills that are relevant in one set of circumstances can be directly transferred to a totally...

You use a proven system when you are new to given activity. You really don't know how things work so you use something that's produced results in the past. You can learn the exceptions as you go along. Having said that, everything on this site is personal and situational in it's application...

Good Lord, that's a huge post! How long did it take to type? Just curious. It just goes to show how important it is to listen to what people (not just women) are saying to you. Actions are stressed here but words count too. I recall living down the hall from a stripper. I was talking to her...

Loose lips sink ships.