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    How long of a wait is too long after getting the number

    I see the question of how soon should one call being asked all the time, but never seen the "when is it been too long" side of the coin. The reason I am asking is becuase I got a few numbers last week, but was unable to follow up due to a busy schedule; its been a week for one and little more...
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    When sex just isn't worth the drama..

    I need some advice here guys. I am currently "talking" to a girl I met through my social circle. She is a close friend of a good buddy of mine, and is connected to a large group of friends. Here are some bullet points that may help explaining the situations: She is a month fresh out of a 3...
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    Bad Fathers; A Tribute Letter

    Our society tends to villainize bad fathers, but I would disagree; bad fathers are not bad. Without bad fathers there would be no bad girls. I thought about it for the first time as I slapped the buttocks of a naughty girl I knew in college. I remember clearly how she stretched out on my lap...
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    This is the best text/email/line/etc I have ever..

    What will be a good answer to this? I know its a silly question but I have gotten this a lot lately and after writing diff responses, I wonder what you guys do when this comes up? I go with ".. I didn't get the texter of the year award for nothing", or "you probably say it to all the boys"...
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    Dont have the heart to string a girl along..

    I cant get myself to falsely let a girl believe that "something might happen between us beyond sex" and then drop her after a few encounters. I have been getting great results lately and have multiple girls who are after me now, but I also realized that I cant be a "a total ass***e" about these...
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    Nyc

    Anyone in the NYC area wants to meet and do some sarging? I am trying to get my game to the next level, but most of my friends are not into PU; I need to meet some like minded individuals to hang out with, learn from and advance our skills. Lets get some NYC people together and make this...
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    The Art of Conversation

    How do I master that skill? My game is slowly and steadily advancing; was a great year for me so far, and I made a huge progress since I found this site. There are still many things I need to learn, but right now I feel that my biggest sticking point is the seemingly simple “art of...
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    Duke Girl Senior Thesis: F*ck List

    Incredibly amusing. http://deadspin.com/5652280/the-full-duke-university-****-list-thesis-from-a-former-female-student/gallery/?skyline=true&s=i What can we learn form this? Slvts are awesome! Girls see aggressiveness and creativity as alpha-male qualities; also, fun loving and...
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    Need advice RE: 2 plates. I am so close!

    Need advice regarding two girls: Girl 1 Very high IL, been went out few times, very good vibes and make out sessions; only reason we didn’t sex it up yet is lack of time/bad timing. Everything was going well until few days ago, when I had to leave town for few days. After I got back I...
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    Game While Dancing

    What do you guys talk about with girls your dancing with? It happens quite often to me; where I am dancing with a girl in a club and its going well, but then she loses interest. I know its becuase I dont really talk to her while we are dancing. What are some good things to say/do while...
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    Escalation? Being Sexual?? How???

    Seriously, I am completely lost in this regard. I truly don’t know how to do this! For some odd reason I can’t get this down. I know I missed many lays just because I did not escalate and did not turn sexual. I just don’t know how to do it in a proper way. I feel like an idiot saying...
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    Help With Co-Workers

    Hello, I have 2 girls that work with me (not same department but same organization) that I like and I think they have IL as well. I spoke with them both on a few occasions (a while back), but we don’t regularly speak and don’t see each other too often. I don’t know how to approach this...
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    Good Conversationalist

    Hi guys, I have a serious issue that I need to work on, but I cant seem to manage. I feel that what stops me from meeting and approaching women is my "self proclaimed" lack of conversation skills. This is exactly where the problem lays, as I am not bad with talking and people, I just feel...
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    South Padre Island

    Hey guys, I am going there on spring break and was wondering if anyone ever been there and heard about that place? From what I understand its a popular spot with lots of party people. On a side note, what are some tips you can share about spring break? I never went before and not sure...
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    A date or not a date!?

    I am going out with a girl I met through a friend, but the problem is that I am not sure if it’s a date or just a friendly outing. I met her while my friend visited from another country and we all went out. We had a great time, laughing and having a flowing conversation. We met again when the...
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    Meeting Ex. How do I show my new found Alpha AND become FB

    Hello, I am going to meet my ex girlfriend for dinner/drinks soon to catch up and talk. We broke up about 3 months ago and did not really speak, except for some rare texts and e-mails. Few days ago out of the blue she emailed me telling me about some random stuff and checking in, and we...
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    What age is your cut off?

    Hey guys, I was just wondering on what would you consider the cut off age when sleeping with a woman? I am 23 and may be able to sleep with a 57 year old. She looks good for her age, but I am not sure if I can go ahead with it, it may be slightly too old for me. What do you guys think...
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    Old friend giving sexual hints

    Hey guys, I have a situation that requires some expert DJ advice; I have a female friend who is older then me by about 6 years. We met in college and became good friends, I never really liked her as more then a friend, and I don’t think she liked me in that way either. She moved to a...
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    Ready to Change....TODAY

    Hello, I am new to this forum, and to the DJ life style as a whole. I found this site a few days ago, and now I decided to join and partake in the discussions, as I myself have many questions to ask and many things to learn. I am 23 years old and I live in Brooklyn, NY, I recently broke up...
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