Search results

Got plastered and went to a strip club last night and my mate kept trying to snog this stripper. So I've just been thinking today, is it possible to pull a stripper? and how?

Hahaha no I haven't but could you imagine someone arriving to your party like that?

Thanks for answering that mate. I'm piss poor at the moment coz I'm a student, I binned my doctors costume a while ago so no I don't have on spare. I'll just wear a nice shirt or something. Should I invite any friends? She said I could, but non of them properly know her, just met her briefly.

Basically I made a lot of mistakes. And no im not beaming with confidence. The thread is a couple of pages back called "friend zone to more?" its got a :) next to it. that explains the whole situation. I probably will ending up making the same mistakes but practice makes perfect i guess. sitting...

I do really like her so it might end up that way, thats why im so unsure about going. Aslo, the fancy dress thing im unsure about, if i go in fancy dress like most people going then it might look like i made too much effort for her, and if i don't i might look lame. any ideas?

So you think I should go then? I'll try and hit on her mates but it's not like I'm any good. And yes it probably is insecurity, I'm trying to sort it out though :D. Shall i fancy dress or not? i hate it.

Right this girl friend zoned me and the advice on here was to ignore her for 3 weeks then call her up asking for dating advice. Anyway, I couldn't wait 3 weeks and invited her on a night out with my mates after about 5 days :/, coz I don't have any patience. She couldn't come but said she is...

Haha, have you never seen like 4 mothers dancing together, like at family parties and stuff, it's horrible.

Sounds like a good approach I'll give it a try. I like mission too I usually just stay outside a lot. Wish I had the money to go out more often. I'm in second year at met ;)

Great advice tafakna thanks. Hopefully things will go well after a 3 week absence :D. And your right about whats the point in giving up on girls you do like. thanks a lot. :D

Finding it really difficult not to ring her or anything. It's only been 3 days. Should I just ask her out on another date or would that be suicide?

Nah this was back in Bury when I went back for the weekend. I tend to go Oceana Halo or tiger tiger when I'm in leeds. I like to chat up in Oceana because its usually packed and so I can try to sarge a lot. What days do you tend to go? Wednesdays are good for students ;D

Right, on saturday night I went out to one of two clubs on my local area with a few friends, two of which have GF's and the other two which are very shy, do i decided to try and chat some girls up on my own. This failed, miserably, everyone was taken or just not interested. So i saw this girl on...

What should I say in the future? I totally agree and felt I was showing too much interest from about a couple weeks in, after that it went tits up. She just gained this choke hold on me were I was thinking about her all the time but I had no idea why. She is two years older then me though so...

Standard operation procedure? Not to sure, if it is he just means the way you should always go about sexual logistics.

What should I say to anyone in the future if they ask that ****? When I said it to her I merely meant that is what I was looking for, but not necessarily with her. Too late for that haha. I knew as soon as I replied that I shouldn't have done. I left it for about a day before I replied...

My flat mate has done the exact same, just went over and used their naivity against them. Just don't get tied down with any of them because as much as they may seem like they like you, it's often not the case.

Yeh I would like a relationship with her but like you say she will be the one pulling the strings, which makes me think twice, coz I'm not having someone control me. I think becoming FB's is the best I could hope for, and I don't wanna think I dated this chick for a few weeks and didn't get laid...

I honestly have no idea what the best answer to the question "Where is this going?" without it going tits up, because every girl seems to want the exact opposite of what I offer. True, and that's the plan. It's just bloody difficult because I was actually interested in someone for once. I...

The non existent girls that have no monthly mood swings :P. No in all seriousness I like a girl who isn't afraid to show she's interested, she's sexually comfortable but not easy.