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    Goddamn it... it's JCballin's turn to vent

    Alright fellas, I apologize in advance for another "screw this I hate women" but damn...I just got ****blocked harder than I ever have in the rest of my combined life. I will preface this by saying that...YES...I do "work" with the girl in the story here...but our hours are very different and...
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    How dangerous is it to receive unprotected oral?

    Hey guys, Just looking for a few insights here since I can't get a resounding yes/no on Google. Basically, I had never gotten past second base in my life until last December, when I was fooling around with a girl that went down on me for a couple seconds. Now, I didn't realize until...
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    It's ending...and for the first time, I'm the one ending it...

    Fellas I feel awful about this one, but I need reassurance. Backstory: Met a girl at home (Western NY), we fell pretty hard and fast for each other...I got one-itis even though I had another plate...let that one fall to the wayside. In the midst of all this, I got an offer for a very...
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    Someone please tell me I did the right thing...LDR issue

    Hey fellas... So I've had a pretty tumultuous initiation to a LDR that I am in the process of ending...I think. I've made a couple threads about this girl before...backstory is we met at home about three months ago and got pretty close...never *official* but absolutely wild about each other...
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    Is this consistent with possible BPD?

    Hey guys, So I've seen a number of threads with other fellas suffering from dealing with chicks who are BPD...admittedly I didn't think much of it because I had never really experienced a girl who had those issues. Until now (maybe). Anyways, this one girl I've gotten somewhat close to is...
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    I'm getting AFC...someone remind me that all will be well...

    Fellas, I need a splash of cold water across the face here... Basically over the last three months I've been back living at home with my parents and working a couple of dead-end jobs while I tried to figure out how to put my college degree to actual use. Finally after all that time I just...
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    When your plates are gettin' blown up by exes all the time...

    Does anyone else think is really obnoxious? Two of the last three girls I've been seeing have constantly been getting calls and texts from ex boyfriends (sometimes more than one) during our hang-out sessions. In courtesy to me, they hardly ever reply (usually just to say they're busy and can't...
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    Is this a good thing or a bad thing to hear?

    One of the girls I've been seeing lately says things like this a lot (mostly via text) : "You're impossible to figure out" "You're so confusing" "Has anyone ever told you you're extremely frustrating?" I think the reason she's saying things like this is because I am trying to dodge...
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    A problem I thought I'd never have...

    Basically I've taken the forum's advice and started actively pursuing girls (or plates, whatever) while already having one in the fold. My situation is essentially this: Girl A (HB 6.5-7ish): Met her at a party...she is several years younger than me and very busy with work/school...is actually...
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    What do you guys do for a living?

    I ask this because I'm just curious what other fellas out there are doing to bring in the $$$ In May, I graduated from a tough four-year college known for stringent academics, great job placement rates, etc. I followed it with an amazing internship this summer - unfortunately the internship...
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    Another thread about losing the v-card

    Hey folks, Been reading a lot of threads related to this lately, and just wanted to throw some thoughts down here since I think I'm basically in a good position to finally lose the ole' v-card... My basic back-story is that I was born & raised in an extremely conservative Christian home...
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    Need a fashion tip here

    I'm going to be working in a semi-casual office environment this summer with a minor league baseball team. The dress code is going to be a provided polo shirt, and I have to wear khakis and "casual shoes or clean sneakers." What kind of sneakers should I be targeting here? I want something...
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    Ouch...need some response ideas fellas

    So basically I have gone out with a girl from class a couple of times here at school. We just got back from a pleasant outing of ice cream consumption...I thought we had a really good time and all that. Then 10 minutes after I dropped her off at her dorm she texts me and says she's sorry she...
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    How do you keep from withering away after injury?

    Well guys, I'm pretty devastated about my immediate-lifting future after suffering what feels like a significant shoulder injury playing basketball yesterday. Long story short, I was blindsided by a 290lb bowling-ball of a man who was attempting to intercept a long outlet pass which was...
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    Took the jump and deactivated Facebook...

    I know social networking sites get hotly debated on here. Some people like to use Facebook/Myspace as a site to get pick up chicks, while others use it simply to interact with friends they actually know. I was more in the camp of just using the site to stay in touch with friends. But after...
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    A good haircut can really do wonders for confidence...

    Ok so I remember reading somewhere, possibly in the DJ Bible, that to get a really good haircut you have to go "where the chicks go." So basically this morning I went to a salon recommended by my sister and got a great haircut for about $20. I had let it grow for like 3 months after buzzing...
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    Any basketball players in here? Let's talk legs...

    So about a year ago I realized that while my upper body and arms were decent-looking, I really needed to incorporate some serious leg work to maximize my body. Here at college I like to play a lot of recreational basketball to help me stay in shape on non-lifting days. One of my goals last...
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    Need help getting over my bench press plateau

    So back in December I finally hit that tantalizing bench number of 225 pounds. I got about 4 solid reps in. Now it's 10.5 months later, and that's still as much as I usually can get on a normal day. This is the kind of set I do: Set 1: 135 lbs, 10-12 reps Set 2: 185 lbs, 6-8 reps Set...
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    Myers-Briggs personality types and how it relates to being a Don Juan

    ***Long Post Warning!*** Hey guys, So I'm not sure how many of you are familiar with the Myers-Briggs personality test, but I just took it for the 3rd time since high school, and after reviewing its analysis of myself, I was not surprised to see that it still has me totally pegged. For those...
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    Someone help me over my anxiety about kiss-closing!

    So quick background...I moved out to a new city for the summer and have had a blast working a seasonal job and staying at my cousins' house on a lake. I've had a really great attitude about going out and making all kinds of new friends...and it was really a challenge for me to change like...
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