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    H&F Newbie

    Haven't got a clue to exercise, never done it before (as a rigorous repeated routine), not fat, just developing a slight gut. Starting exercise for lent. Looking for something free I can do at home to tone stomach and build up arms slowly. Would get gym membership but no job at the moment and...
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    Mirrors: My worst enemy

    Oh how I wish some mirrors just weren't there as looks are not everything. But there is a crushing disappointment when you look into a bad one rather than a good one and think 'Dayyyum, are other people seeing that?' For me a mirror under a heavy light is bad as it shines through to my scalp...
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    Clothing Styles for Balding Men

    Long story short I am balding at 19 yes, however I am using Rogaine, which is working wonders for me, got a whole new frontline of hair. However the rest of my hair is quite medium length-ish still, so I'm going for a bit of a buzzcut look whilst I wait for the front to grow thick again...
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    Guys, I Ran Out Of Conversation Stems

    I'm not comfortable with approaching in general because I find there's a lack of conversation I can focus on Anyway I was filming an advert today and my friend bought one of his cute friends round to do makeup, I chatted about Uni and gap year..but after that just ran out of ideas which was a...
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    I've Worked Out Why I'm Such A Fail

    I have depression and social anxiety. Just looked up the symptoms and I have these ones continuous low mood or sadness, feelings of hopelessness and helplessness, low self-esteem, tearfulness, feelings of guilt, feeling irritable and intolerant of others, lack of motivation and...
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    Absolute Beginner

    Ok im nearly 19 and I'm starting from scratch If I wear clothes I don't look overweight, but I've started to notice how unhealthy I'm getting as my belly is starting to stick out and my metabolism is clearly diminishing I only earn £20 a week, £15 of which goes towards food and college...
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    I Hate Looking At Myself In The Mirror

    I like to wake up in the mornings, I'm in a VERY positive mood, shower, get ready for college as usual, look in the mirror in my darkish kitchen and seem fine But all my confidence dips as soon as I leave the house and catch a reflection of myself...
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    Mind Panicking

    I had someone come up to me in the chippy and say you look like some bloke from the X-Factor...of course unfortunately begin smooth isn't in my second nature yet so i just said thankyou...eurghhh dear. How long is it take for it to become second nature?
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    Audiobooks

    Is there any audio based versions of the books people keep mentioning on this site I can't read PDFs as I have a tendency to get distracted by the internet and I can't afford the real books If there is any can you shove me in the right direction please?
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    Just Be An ******* For A Moment

    Seriously, try it once, online or in person. Do it with someone expendable i.e you don't talk to them much or are not interested in getting inside them. Then you will realise afterwards that winding them up a bit doesn't actually make you feel bad at all, obviously don't cross a line and go...
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    Making Conversation Flow/Groups

    Well first off I'd like some basic info on how to make a conversation flow. I can only normally manage hi, how are you, name etc before I ask stupid questions or just freeze up and walk away defeated Plus say the one girl you want to talk to (been getting positive signs, etc) is with two of...
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    Coming To Terms With Yourself

    I'm sure at some point a fair few of us had try to come to terms with the fact that it is possible that a member of the opposite sex may actually be interested in them It's a hard thing to get over and come to terms with, especially for those who had not considered themselves so attractive...
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    Conversation Followups

    I would not tend to have a problem approaching, however once it gets past Hi I have no idea what I would say next. Basic smalltalk would do but after about 30 secs what would the topic move on to Bearing in mind im not good at reading envrionment
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    Kiss Close on the Dancefloor?

    Somehow I was acting like a loon on the dancefloor, bit of headbanging and jumping and it obviously got two particular girls attention. When they were with us sort of near a corner they started pulling their tops down and playing with their breasts Anyway got a bit of grinding going on with...
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    What would you do?

    I'm 18 and a virgin If you want to lost it as fast as I do (don't ask) would you wait for a girlfriend/LTR or take what you can
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    I Fail At Nights Out

    18. Virgin. Insecure. Only one out of my circle who is still a virgin. Butt end of virgin jokes. Hate people. Night outs are horrible. My mate always takes the piss by saying hes going to get girls to have sex with me. And not in the nice way or being 'helpful'. Forcing strange women to come...
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    Festival Guide

    Festival season has officially arrived So I'm off to a festival this weekend (Download) What's everyone's best tips/stories concerning festival action
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    Faking Age Is Sign of Interest

    This girl I got a number from last week told me she was 16 but I know she's 15 Good sign? I do believe so
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    Receding Hairline at 18

    Ok I'm 18 and have quite a receding hairline It's not majorly noticeable but now that my close friends have brought it up, its starting to pick away at my self esteem and it's affected my game as I haven't approached for a long time, fearing they will be put off by my hair
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    Act On Instinct

    Damn I'm slow to realise things When I was out a while back I was a bit gone with the drink and me and my mate went to this little club and he saw an old female friend of his, her friend looked bored as she wasn't involved and my instinct was to rach out my hand to her as it to be polite, she...
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