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    5 Weeks of College

    yeah, i definitely agree that i was seeking approval..i also was being really insecure, which is a source for jealously/possessiveness..i was afraid of messing things up...afraid of losing her to another guy, when i found out that there aren't any other guys..there's no one. But yes, i agree
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    5 Weeks of College

    sounds like things are going good for you in general... just a little follow up on the oneitis girl i talked to her roommate and the oneitis, which made me jealous/;possessive/paranoid/etc...was making me come off as EXTREMELY WEIRD..i was doing things out of character... definitely my...
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    5 Weeks of College

    i find some of the advice on this forum to be extreme.."never compliment" "don't open the door for the girl" "don't be friends".. I hardly say sexy ****...unless i'm in a relationship/want to be in one with a particular girl. How do you make her feel good? Tell the truth. There has to be...
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    5 Weeks of College

    I don't recognize many of the users who have created threads recently. This is my first time back on the site btw, probably been a few months already. ANYWAYS I'm here to share a little bit about what I've learned so far, after 5 weeks of college. A little background first...I'm 6'2-6'4...
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    Friend Zone = 9th Circle of Hell?

    your desire will lead to your failure. here's something i learned/always say on this forum... work on yourself rather than try to attract girls that you "really like". you can want her to be your gf all you want, but in the end, she will decide whether or not she wants to fill that...
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    Friend Zone = 9th Circle of Hell?

    what do you consider a crush? i dont think ive used that word in years...perhaps a decade and none of my friends use it so i'm not sure
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    How to break up because of college?

    she already knows you like her...there's no need to mention it.. there are some things that are meant to be said...and some that aren't.. but this isn't either of the two.. this falls into the third category.. things that are meant to be said at a certain time...and this isn't it...
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    How to break up because of college?

    "sorry, i misunderstood what you said earlier. I thought you were saying not to mention breaking up at ALL but really you mean just not to mention it before and during our date, correct? otherwise it just be kinda like a cliff-hanger without any closure." i wouldn't even talk about the break...
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    How to break up because of college?

    "shouldn't we atleast be on the same page about long-distance relationships " you could be reading different books and after 3 years, be on the same page on the same book...or perhaps you won't even be on any page on any book because you'll be in bed with too many girls. :woo: i thought...
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    Input needed.

    she knows you like her...but she tells you she's not able to like people.. obviously she's not interested...because I HAVE NEVER MET A GIRL WHO WAS NOT ABLE TO LIKE PEOPLE...the only stories i hear about this from other opeple is when the girl was overtly religious and couldn't date because her...
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    How to break up because of college?

    "the reason i'm asking is because Jeff's suggestion mentions hanging out when you get back, which is what my initial idea was, but after that DJhero said not to mention it." btw, i wrote that line without any thought..because it really doesn't matter as long as you dont say **** you...
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    College Bound DJ's

    Hey guys...kinda sad but I graduated hs..lol but also exciting.. i'll try to keep posting in the hs forum again as well as start frequenting the older guy forums... I wanted to make this thread in hopes of having us dj's..new ones and especially oldskool ones...figure out if we're going to...
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    need quick simple song

    hmm heres the first contradiction... 1. You say you have game. You might or you might not. How the hell woudl i know? 2. Your friends were willing to be 200 dollars that you couldn't hook up with one girl by the end of summer. Now, i dont want to argue over whether or not you ahve game...but...
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    Friend Zone = 9th Circle of Hell?

    you want to them physically..i HIGHLY doubt you know them well enough to really be "in love"..there's no magic way out..but you shouldn't simply think "we're friends. I'm content." You're overthinking. Wasting time and life. Meet other girls... If these girls that you're only friends with...
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    How to break up because of college?

    you're thinking too hard...there's no magic line that will keep her open as an option..you're trying to control the future.. here's what i say: Live your life. Meet other girls. Have fun. When she comes back, if she does, have fun with her. If she wants to be mroe than friends, then it'll...
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    Finally signed up after lurking for about a year... needs help

    This is the answer you'll get from most people, and a lot of other people who are too lazy to even respond with this answer... Read the DJ Bible...The truth is, the answer is there already, HS bible might be a little more appropriate at this time. The thing is, every new person doesn't...
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    How fast should we be going??

    LMAO...i completely disagree.. Advice: 1. Opinion about what could or should be done about a situation or problem; counsel. We're telilng him what should be done...even if yo utake it as us telling him what to do, it's the internet...he can do whatever he wants. You tell me what to do...
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    keep getting flaked on

    don't chase, in fact women who want you, dont want you to chase. but women who do not want you, want you to chase. Confusing eh? Basically girls who really want to be with you, dont want you to CHASE cause it shows a lack of worth and an abundance of desperation. Make her work for you...
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    Advice...? Am new to this

    hmm this is my opinion... there is no game. I used to refer to guy/girl interactions as a game when i started out. I tried to implement, like you have, all these techniques...and it didn't help. One big reason is...this is high school. Most hs girls aren't experienced enough for you to use...
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    keep getting flaked on

    i'm curious..what's your opinion on analyze's post.. "Just try to avoid "isolation" at the start, escalate to that later get that isolation, it just stops the flaking when they think they just going for a friendly fun time, and not so much a date" i never thoguht about building a foundation...
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