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  1. J

    How to Properly Go From Sex--->Relationship

    It seems entirely plausible to think that once you've had sex with a girl, she is yours for the taking. While this is true in theory, there are no guarantees of this in reality; if a relationship (or even just steady sex) is what you desire, you STILL need to rely on game, to some degree. This...
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    Text Game for the 2010s

    I decided to write this after googling "text game" and finding a lot of really awful advice out there. It seems as if the authors of these articles just imagined what might work in their heads and then came up with a rationale to explain it all later. The only one I'd strongly recommend is...
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    Text Game for the 2010s

    I decided to write this after googling "text game" and finding a lot of really awful advice out there. It seems as if the authors of these articles just imagined what might work in their heads and then came up with a rationale to explain it all later. The only one I'd strongly recommend is...
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    "Betches Love This" blog

    Anyone hear of this? This is actually an interesting read, because it corroborates the importance of game from a female perspective. The blog is meant to be a bit tongue-in-cheek, but the author(s) are quite self-aware, and I wouldn't be surprised if this functioned as a female "game" blog for...
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    A Reminder that Game STILL isn't Mainstream

    http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=3973
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    How to Hold Interest Between the First and Second Date

    One common problem with cold approach pickup (and dating in general) is that you are automatically penalized for being a stranger. You can go out and have a great date with a girl, only to have all the attraction evaporate in a few days as you exchange text messages, trying to plan another...
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    How to [Correctly] Pursue Girls- (video)

    There's a popular web video series called, "Simple Pickup" that I encourage EVERYONE to watch. The videos are made to be entertaining and the creators aren't hawking a product, but they successfully manage to strip away the non-essential elements of pickup in a way that no PUA guru has...
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    Bottlenecks on the Road to Solid Game- Approach Anxiety

    I find that progress in cold approach pickup doesn't really occur on a linear model. Instead, it seems to come in leaps and bounds, punctuated by periods of no progress whatsoever. Often, major progress comes as a result of addressing major underlying issues. As pickup has already gotten...
  9. J

    The Death of Indirect Game

    To be sure, the title is a bit of hyperbole...of course, indirect game will continue to work for many, and the principles espoused in models like M3 are generally correct (besides the one about 7 hours of comfort). But, there are a lot of pitfalls that stem from introducing superfluous...
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    Any thoughts on the Brett Favre scandal?

    Are there people that actually believe that girls wouldn't flake on Brad Pitt solely based on his looks/status? Because Brett Favre just had to deal with a whole lot more than flaking. Here's a guy that had status, looks, fame, etc...and a lack of social intelligence was all it took to get...
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    Don't Be Too Proud To Pursue- Flaking is Almost Universal

    You know what's funny? Nearly all species of female mammals exhibit a similar type of flirting behavior, in which they send an invitation to a desired male to approach then, and then, somewhat counter intuitively, run away. This would seem to indicate that requiring one to "chase" weeds out...
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    How Rejection Can Help You Get The Girl

    Want a wake up call from all the intellectualizing of pickup ideology? Watch clips of "Keys to the VIP" on youtube. These are, for the most part, guys that have very little game, and you will seem them do stupid things like buy drinks for girls, ask girls if they like them, and beg for...
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    How To Replace Your Girlfriend's Girlfriends and "Benevolent Isolation"

    There is no denying that certain environmental factors are going to affect the strength of your LTR. There are obvious, quantifiable factors like financial status, as well as less tangible, qualitative factors such as external social pressures. We all know the dangers of the "orbiter AFC" or...
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    Context!!!

    A significant part of being "good with women" lies in playing to your strengths and setting up situations to work in your favor. Since so much of life is perceived to be beyond our control, it's easy to forget that we are fully capable of AVOIDING being put in the value-compromising positions...
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    A Thread on Conversational Threads--contributions welcome

    I'm generally not a fan of using canned routines, but I do think it is important to have a "stockpile" of conversational threads ready to go at all times on a cold approach. Ease in conversation is what allows a girl to relax her guard and trust you in leading the interaction--something that...
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    48 Laws of Power vs. Traditional Masculinity

    Most of us here are familiar with Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power...it may as well be required reading on this board. Regardless on whether or not you choose to implement these laws in your own life, it is a fascinating and entertaining read. It also raises a few questions about the way we...
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    FOR THE UNINITIATED--A Quick 'n Easy Guide to AFC's and DJ's

    An AFC isn't always a guy that can't get laid. Contrary to popular belief, an AFC is perfectly capable of getting laid. There are married AFC’s, single AFC’s, AFC’s dating unattractive girls...even AFC’s dating hot chicks. If you believe that getting laid will solve all your women...
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    INTEREST LEVEL vs. RESPECT

    I did some thinking, and I wanted to do a post that better defines our usage of "interest level," which tends to be a pretty amorphous term. We talk about "interest level" being the barometer of a relationship, but I believe this is a bit of a misnomer when used in this context. I'll explain...
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    How to GET YOUR EX BACK...and WHY YOU SHOULDN'T DO IT

    Probably a lot of guys came to this site after being dumped by a girl, and I'm sure ALL of them naturally toyed with the idea of trying to get her back. Here's my thoughts: A lot of people believe that once a girl's interest goes past a critical point, you're out forever and she will never...
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    MM Forum---PLEASE give this guy advice before he ruins his life

    http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1455206&posted=1#post1455206 The OP had been living with a friend, and eventually started hooking up with her. He had made a series of threads of all the cruel and disrespectful behavior she's exhibited towards him, yet somehow agreed to be her...
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