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FOR THE UNINITIATED--A Quick 'n Easy Guide to AFC's and DJ's

Jeffst1980

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An AFC isn't always a guy that can't get laid.

Contrary to popular belief, an AFC is perfectly capable of getting laid. There are married AFC’s, single AFC’s, AFC’s dating unattractive girls...even AFC’s dating hot chicks.

If you believe that getting laid will solve all your women problems, you have a lot to learn.

What makes an AFC an “Average, Frustrated Chump?”
His lack of IDENTITY.
His inability to STAND HIS GROUND
His MALLEABLE belief system.

An AFC will remain inactive until he is forced to react.
On the other hand, a DON JUAN will be in constant motion and therefore have nothing to react against.

A DON JUAN has a STRONG IDENTITY
A DON JUAN will ALWAYS STAND HIS GROUND
A DON JUAN has a belief system that he will defend with ALL HIS MIGHT.

Whereas an AFC spends all of his waking hours worrying about how women perceive him, a DJ doesn’t let the thought cross his mind.
Whereas an AFC follows the latest trends and fashions in an effort to fit in, a DJ follows his own muse instinctively.
Whereas an AFC waits for just the right moment to talk to that girl, or to ask her out, or to kiss her, a DJ understands that the PRESENT IS the right moment.

Women respond favorably to DJ’s and unfavorably to AFC’s. It has nothing to do with women wanting to be with JERKS. A TRUE DJ is remarkably kind because he has no insecurities. Aspire to be great and you shall be treated greatly.

Women are extremely intuitive in social settings and can sniff out an AFC in an instant.
The SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do to improve your life is INTERNALIZE the foundation of a DON JUAN—This is the cornerstone. It should dictate your beliefs, your interactions, and your goals.

Stop playing video games and get out and get involved in the world.
Stop adding girls as Myspace “friends” and talk to real live human beings.
Stop being selfish and help other people that are worse off than you.
Stop being reactive and learn to step away from situations that are detrimental to your well being.
Stop whining about your looks, or height, or any other physical shortcomings. There have been plenty of guys way worse off than you that could still pull girls.

For those of you that are virgins, realize that it's NOT your lack of a sex life that makes you an AFC. Stop feeling bad about being a virgin. Take your time and address the deeper issues first; girls will come once you have done so, virgin or not.

Get out of your comfort zone and you will, for once, feel ALIVE.
 
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