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Know what you mean, OP. I get into the routine mindset a lot and find I need to do other things before I feel good to go meet people. Cooking, washing, cleaning stuff, fetching water from the spring, working, working out, etc, all needs to be done first, for me.

Thanks for the support, AtomSmasher. I have the same difficulty recognizing faces, and often have to look a little bit longer to try and work out if it is actually them. I've got high attention to detail and notice little things that might go unnoticed by a lot of people. This is mostly a...

Sounds like you were quite into her. Need to get her out of your mind, man. Go meet some other women. And don't send her an email asking for no contact. Just have no contact - ignore her.

Hey there I've been thinking about why I've not had much success with the women recently, and it seems to come down to a few things. I wonder if you can relate/share.. First off, I'm on the autistic spectrum, which makes it kind of difficult to be interested in people and conversation. I'm...

It's like a paradox. Sex only feels good when it has a risk - no condom. Wear the condom and (for me) there's really no point in having sex.

Negative. It's been over a year actually. Both of those things. It felt a LOT better without. Imagine you've only heard sticks being beaten together, and then you go to a Pink Floyd gig.. Sort of like that.

I'm sure it's been said a hundred times, but it's true, and it puts me off. People will say I should experiment with a different brand, or type, but they're all the same really. A condom's a condom. I've had sex without them a few times and it was so much better, for both of us, but now I...

Beach would be good. Go somewhere where the two of you can chill out and get some conversation going. That's the important thing on a first date. The rest doesn't really matter.

No one should listen to that rubbish about getting rich and buying stuff to get laid. Nothing will set you back more and anyone who recommends it is having a mid-life crisis. That said, it sounds like you're on the right track and have made good progress. I'm in my early twenties as well and...

:crackup: "Well actually, there's one other thing, almost forgot to ask... can you do a few pull-ups for me??"

This has to be a good thing. Start leading your d*ck rather than being dragged along behind it. They picked up on this and that's why they approached. Keep it up!

It sounds like she's complimenting you because she has low self esteem and expects you to return a compliment so she feels better about herself. Don't give her any more compliments than you think is appropriate.

One of the most important things you can learn :up:

Check out the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Definitely one of the best self improvement books I've read. It's mainly about spirituality and psychology, but you'll find that your inner game and confidence will skyrocket even before you've finished reading it. IMO it's more effective to work on...

Alpha isn't necessarily a good title as shown here. Infact most of the 'alpha' guys I know are similar to this guy. No composure, narrow minded, overly aggressive. Hardly DJ qualities. The real alpha would never have reacted.

Clooney should have played James Bond.. or should play James Bond after Daniel Craig.

One of my good friends is pushing sixty and has just divorced his wife of 22 years. He's never been happier. Still drinks with us 20/30 year olds and no one questions it, simply because he's just like us. Chronologically much older, but not in character. I see that as the way I'd like to be at...

Seems clear. She obviously isn't interested in you enough to stop seeing other people, so you need to do the only thing that makes sense. Move on, meet new women. Forget about this one.

I've been away from the forum for about a year now, so here's a quick hello before I start my post. It's been a strange year, and I've learned quite a lot from it. I've got rid of my old AFC ways. I'm more content and have more confidence. But despite this I'm still not great with people...

If I hadn't made me, I would've been made somehow If I hadn't assembled myself, I'd have fallen apart by now If I hadn't made me, I'd be more inclined to bow Powers that be, would have swallowed me up But that's more than I can allow If you let them make you, they'll make you paper mache At a...